New year.  New profile.

Starting fresh in my search for love.

"Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love." 

Explaining my desire for kink + vanilla normalcy is complex.  

My dream is a man who will love my family and friends and be able to socialize with me and enjoy the everyday boring things of life together while delighting in a shared secret.  

A 1950s/domestic discipline relationship with a man who is kind and loving first, firm and fair second, and unwavering in his loyalty to monogamy.

I'm drawn to the naturally protective type and need a man who is intelligent, ambitious, and invested in the world around him.

I'm open to relocation for the right man but I will not offer long-distance monogamy until we've met and I'm convinced we have something real.  Also, if I were to move I need a man who will encourage me to travel and visit my family - who I love dearly.

I'm open to a man relocating to my area as well.  Of course the dream is to find someone local.

Maintaining my privacy is important to me, but I will exchange photos to prove I'm real and you are as well.

Spanking is my biggest desire/turn on so if you're not a true "spanko" it's unlikely we will be a match.

While I will consider others, please know I have a strong preference for tall men (5'10" is about the minimum) and men who are typically clean shaven or closely trimmed short facial hair.  I'm open to older men but not those closer to my mother's age than my own.  :) 

Happy hunting and cheers to finding love in the new year!