First, a little about me
Hi, I’m Harriet! I’m a 28-year-old woman living in the Triangle with my adorable cat and stupid yet lovable greyhound. I have my own tutoring business where I teach all types of math–which I not only love for its own sake but also because it gives me flexibility to pursue my other passion. I love writing. I love writing this right now. I have a short story published (best day of my life to see that in print) and I wrote a queer romance novel that I hope to publish one day. I love painting (specifically Avatar the Last Airbender art), putting together jigsaw puzzles, Halloween and horror, and creating completely unnecessary Excel spreadsheets. I’m fairly tall (5’9’’) and thin and tend to have a dark academia type of aesthetic–but I wear a hair bow with every outfit. I deal with chronic anxiety but have worked hard over the years to make it more manageable.
What I’m looking for from a relationship
D/s:I’m looking for a life partner and a lifelong D/s relationship. I identify as a submissive, a brat, a little/middle, and a masochist.I am particularly drawn to aspects of a 24/7 M/s lifestyle, but with a DD/lg flair (and would much rather call my partner Daddy than Master.) However, I think I could thrive in a number of different dynamics. One day I would very much like to be owned and collared. However, I’m looking to grow into this dynamic gradually and need someone okay with that. I don’t jump into D/s these days, and I want someone I share a solid vanilla connection with first.
Monogamish, probably childfree: I’ve done poly in the past and am not opposed to it completely–but at this point, I’m looking for something mostly monogamous. I would like to focus my energy on one person and have that reciprocated. And while I want to build a life and home with someone, I’m pretty certain I never want to birth a child. Adoption is a possibility in the future, but for the most part I just want someone to adopt a bunch of pets with.
And here’s where I list stuff I want from a partner like it’s a weird job application
Committed, Dominant: First, I would like someone who also very much wants a life partner. I don’t necessarily need a Dominant with tons of experience, but I would like them to have plenty of interest, ideas, and a desire to learn with me. I am attracted to people who treat me like a princess but also want to put me in my place. With my consent. After we’ve negotiated extensively.
Age, Distance, Gender: Ideally, I’d like someone between 25-40 years old who lives within ~2 hours of the triangle. The distance is flexible–but for me to date someone farther away, they’d have to be pretty damn compatible. I’m bisexual and open to any and all genders!
