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SanJoseBDSM
| Hetero Male, 34, San Jose, California
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San Jose California 5' 11"
175 lbs
34
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Caucasian
02/05/24 |
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Hello a/All
Welcome to my little corner of collarspace.
My reason for creating this account iso find new friends ( any gender, preference, etc) , and possibly a romantic partner (female submissive/slave).
About me
I'm not going to separate this list into kinky and vanilla sections. The two are very much intertwined with me, and if you get one you also get the other. Being a Dominant or submissive isn't black or white. Like an onion I have layers, also like an onion I may make you cry :P. While I consider myself a very serious person, I don't take myself or things too seriously. You have to be able to laugh in all aspects life, whether it's out at dinner with family, or in the middle of a scene with a very good friend. Just be sure not to conflate the two.
While my profession keeps me indoors, I love the outdoors. Hiking and archery have been a long time favorites, and I'm getting into camping recently. I enjoy reading, writing, and watching TV and movies, anything with a good story makes me happy even if it's in a video game. I love music from modern pop on the radio to classical. I was an orchestral trained percussionist for many years (how I got my start hitting things I suppose). And of course one can't forget the wonder symphony of grunts and moans from a gagged sub!
I taught for many years, and it became a strong passion of mine. Which of course bled over into bdsm, and teaching and educating those new to the lifestyle or, or those just curious about it. However, I don't claim to know everything about the life and am eager to always learn more myself. (for example my ropework needs much more practice)
I am very affectionate, love to cuddle, and take care of the one I'm with. I don't however consider myself a daddy dom, and am not looking for that kind of dynamic. On the flipside, I can be pretty sadistic and enjoy pushing my subs/slaves as far as they will go to please me. I think that is one of the biggest rushes. It isn't always the act but the subs/slaves desire to go through it to please the Dominant.
The connection is the strongest factor in a D/s or M/s relationship. It filters into everything from cuddling, to getting Him/Her coffee in the morning, to whips and chains and crying and spanking. That connection of trust and intimacy Is the foundation. All the kinky fun is just icing on the cake.
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12/7/2017 12:19:36 PM: I've actually been getting more interest in the south bay munch!!! At this point it's mostly submissive men, so more submissive women, Dom(me)s would be nice to mix it up. I'm still looking for locations, so if anyone know of any kink friendly spaces, or homes that would be wonderful. Please submit your ideas for games and activities, so far there hasnt' been much on that front!
11/26/2017 3:51:19 PM: Ok everyone. I still haven't given up the hope of a south bay munch. And seeing as how its almost December, an xmas holiday themed one would be fun!Some ideas I have is taking 2 volunteer subs (1 male and 1 female) to be tied up in the center of the room all evening and 'decorated' however the group wants. Or perhaps a kinky version of white elephant? Please if anyone wants to participate or has any ideas for any other fun activities feel free to submit them. I'll post the best ones as they come in!
11/26/2017 2:39:47 PM: Hey A/all, If you've gotten what seems like a rather rude cut/paste email from me. That was in fact not from me, just for some reason when the person sent it my name got put on it. I've seen it and it's fairy obvious it's not from me. But in case anyone has, I just wanted to reiterate it's not me
11/18/2017 6:33:01 PM: So far I've had all of 1 person (male sub) ask me about or show interest in a local munch. Come on south bay. If you want one let me know so I can start making it happen !
10/18/2017 3:10:39 PM: Finally approved!
I know it's a long read and in the second half of my profile, but please let me know if you are interested in a San Jose Munch. (Anyone is welcome, not just San Jose, Dom(me), sub, slave, other, Male, Female, CD, TV, other)If enough people are interested I'll start setting one up!
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