I'm new to this site but not new to the life. I'm also on fet

     I have had time to try many different approaches to what kind of Dom. Daddy. Master. I want to be. I have found that the only real way to earn those titles. To many so called dom force. They think the word "dom " gives them the right to do and say what they please. At the end of the day do you really have a strong relationship? No so for me. I give my sub total freedom with day to day stuff. If they ask for my help or just want to vent I'm there. I let them know family and work always comes first. To many doms try to take total control causing a sub to be totally dependent on them. Make them alienate friends and family. That is a weak man. He is just looking to create a slave. So if the day ever comes where you split. The sub is left with nothing and no one to count on. I want my sub to be self sufficient. She can handle her own knowing I have her back if she needs it. I guide them. I protect them. After all of this I don't need to ask or force submission. It is given with out question. Submission is the grates gift you can receive it should be treated that way. So this is the man I am.