Looking for a disciplinarian, no sex.

Long story short, I could top my class if I tried, but I can't even find the motovation to pass. I need someone to be stern and strict, almost parental, scold and make me howl, but just as importantly,  make me feel loved and protected. Although I don't want sexual advances, I'd probably love a butt rub and playing with my hair after. To get an idea of what I like: 

 http://www.spankingtube.com/video/12456/liz-spanked-12-14-2011

(Why does my profile insist I'm from the American state of Alabama? West Aussie here.)

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