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Hello! I go by Ely (pronounced Eli).
Face pic on request. I'm also open to meeting at munches.
Who I am:
I am an electronics nerd who enjoys gaming, YouTube, livestream viewing, anime, with a dash of software development such as modding. Despite my passion, I work in fitness and have completed a training course which gives me the knowledge (yet strangely not the certificate) to act as a personal trainer.
Kink Side:
I could just put up a laundry list, but that's no fun, and it's disrespectful and ifying. What I'll do instead is try to describe what exactly I mean to accomplish as a sub. Do I have fetishes I want to do/try? Yes. Sorry. I am selfish just like every other. BUT... I recognize that a D/s relationship isn't all about me. As a sub, I have my desires, but recognize that my dominant has desires too. And I do honestly want to cater to hers before mine. But I don't like sacrificing my desires for the sake of someone else.
What to do... What to do...
And then I had an idea, which became my ultimate fantasy. What if, when balanced properly, my desires are used against me to train myself to become the best sub I could? What if my dominant actually enjoyed many of the same things I did, and used them to improve myself as a person and submissive? Now I can see that getting fun!
Put as straightforward as I can, I place emotional significance to D/s and BDSM, meaning I want there to be a connection between myself and my partner, and I want BOTH of us to enjoy it in some way. I want, like nothing else, to be the one to bring my dominant higher in their life, to make them happy, to improve their comfort, to maximize the fun they have with me, to ease in every way I can all of their stressors, and actually enjoy doing it!
I am willing to relocate with the right person, but it will take a LOT of talk and trust.
To the "FinDommes":
I will NOT be a "pay pig" or "cash cow" in ANY way. I'm not your free ride to an easy life, you worthless prostitute. Yea I said it. Come at me.
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