We are seeking a male third, someone who can date and play with us both. He is 37, mostly dom, but some switch tendencies and bi. She is 30, primarily vanilla, with some kink, and a switch when the mood takes her.

Our ideal candidate is between 25 and 40, healthy, not super skinny, willing to date the both of us (We are a package deal) as well as spend time individually with each of us. Well groomed, with a mix of interests because we're not looking for 24/7 at this time. We're also not looking to support anyone, so you'd need to be self-sufficient. We're not in a rush to find someone and we'd like whoever we do find to be a long-term match, so we're going to be picky about who we meet with.