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Hetero Male, 37, Milano, Italia 
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 Milano

 Italia

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 5' 8"

 147 lbs

 37

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 02/02/24

I'm an active, positive, creative person, drugs and diseases free, trustworthy, I have my own job (actually, 2 very different jobs at the same time), my own house and my own hobbies, and BDSM is simply one of my many interests.
I'm naturally dominant and I love the mental side of BDSM, even more than the physical one, also because the mind has a deep influence on the body, rather than the contrary (though, I obviously agree, the "physical chemistry" in the interaction between two people takes a fundamental role).
I think being on top doesn't mean being selfish. On the contrary, it implies much more responsibilities and it requires to be able to read into your sub/slave, listen to her, understand her needs, fantasies and limits, and guide her through the path towards the improvement of her skills and the fulfilment of her own deepest desires. Both the Master/Dom and the slave/sub give and receive to/from each other, just in two very different ways. Who is on top makes decisions, but never as a dictator... always taking into account the needs of both. This is, briefly, what BDSM should be based on, from my point of view.
I might write more about myself in the future. Meanwhile, if you are curious about anything, feel free to ask :-)

PS: Since many people are asking me the same questions...
1) Yes, I have some years of experience as a hypnotist (although it's not my primary job)
2) "Does hypnosis work, or is it the bullshit you see in the movies?" Yes, it does work, and it has not much in common with the usual stereotypes.
3) "Can you force me to do anything that would be dangerous for my own safety or health, or that is strongly against my moral values?" No, nobody could. Hypnosis works as a kind of self-hypnosis where the subject is guided by the hypnotist. It works on the condition that the subject allows the hypnotist to lead her/him. It is completely safe and consensual.
4) "Is the subconscious weak and vulnerable?" No, it is quite strong, and perfectly able to protect itself.
5) "Can you install "triggers"?" Yes, I can, and it is quite basic stuff that every hypnotists do. Post-hypnotic suggestions (or triggers) work instantaneously and effectively, whether the subject is under a trance or awake. They work because the subject craves them to happen, because they are associated with positive and pleasurable events and feelings that the subject desires to be able to experience again.
6) "Is text sufficient to hypnotize someone?" In principle, it is, but it's obviously much better to meet in person, or at least to use voice. It's important to read the body language of the subject, and to use the body language to send subliminal messages to the subject, so at least a cam2cam interaction is necessary to produce quick and satisfactory results.
7) "I've tried hypnosis and it didn't work for me. Does it mean I can't be hypnotized?". In principle, everybody who doesn't have severe mental issues can be hypnotized, but: they need to be actively willing to be hypnotized; they need to trust the hypnotist; the hypnotist actually has to be a hypnotist, and not a wannabe who is just playing games. Some subjects find it easier to drift into trance with respect to others, and they can be hypnotized faster and with less efforts. For others, more time and patience are required, and often more sophisticated techniques.
8) "Is it for free?". In general, it's not. In my specific case, I do it also for my personal enjoyment, and it's not my main job, so I can do it for free, at least for the first couple of sessions. Afterwards, I decide on a case by case basis, mostly depending on the kind of hypnosis the subject wants: if it's to solve her own personal issues, I prefer to receive some payment; if it is for mutual entertainment, then I can keep doing it for free. Any kind of payment would be agreed, together with the conscious subject, before proceeding with a session. In any case, I would never use hypnosis to receive money or goods from people in any subtle non-consensual way.
9) "How many subjects have you hypnotized so far, and with what kind of results?" I don't have much time to dedicate to this activity, but I do it regularly and my subjects are almost always very satisfied, to a point that most of them become regular subjects. So far, I've hypnotized more than 20 people, both in real-life and through cam2cam sessions. I have almost no experience using just text, and I don't like the text-only approach, because it gives me no immediate feedback and it easily causes the connection hypnotist/subject to be broken soon.
10) "What do I need to have, in order to be able to set up a proper session?" Real-life sessions are obviously the best option, because they enable physical contact. If that's not possible, for instance due to distance, then cam2cam is a viable alternative. It simply requires: a webcam, a microphone, a silent place with at least a chair, or better a sofa, or better a bed, where the subject can stay in a comfortable position, being able to relax without any external source of distraction. Best if the subject owns also some wireless earphones, because it makes simpler to follow the hypnotist's voice without any disturbing wires.
11) "What kind of results can you obtain through hypnosis?" The results that I've achieved with my subject so far are of different kinds. Some subjects just wanted to solve personal issues, such as quit smoking, improving self-confidence, understanding problems coming from their childhood, etc. Some others were more attracted by the BDSM-related aspects, and used hypnosis to increase their sex-drive, to feel more submissive or more dominant, to install useful triggers, to experience multiple hand-free orgasms through simple mind stimulation (without physical contact), etc.

Please feel free to make questions. I might add the answers here, if they might be interesting also for others.

 

You can find me on Fetlife with the same username.

 

QUICK ADDITION: I can show myself (dressed) on pictures or cam, to those who will prove to be trustworthy (quite obviously, the profile picture is not me)

1/8/2016 1:12:55 AM: http://gentleglimpse.tumblr.com/post/133071970409/kurea-hasumi-is-such-a-cute-puppyAmazing puppy. Doesn't she look so happy?

12/4/2015 4:29:17 AM: Why the 'watch'?Watch is not just the name of an object. It is also a subliminal command. Watch! Your mind can consciously think about it, or it can just process it in background. When things happen in the subconscious, they tend to be more effective, because you don't have any direct control over them. They just 'happen' while you are not realizing they are conditioning you. When a command is explicit, you can actively decide to resist and to set up a wall to protect yourself. When it is implicit, you just absorb it.Hypnosis works exactly like that. The hypnotist leverages channels of communication directly targeted to the subconscious, bypassing your conscious perception. That's why it is so amazingly effective and powerful.

12/4/2015 1:13:13 AM: Intelligence matters. It simply does. You can enjoy playing a bimbo role, and have a lot of fun with it, but this doesn't mean you have to actually be completely dumb.Please, if you contact me, be ready to hold some meaningful conversation, at least at the beginning. Thank you.

12/4/2015 1:08:46 AM: Possible reasons why someone would publish a face picture on a website like this:1) they have no job, so they don't risk to have problems at work because of BDSM2) they have a job, and they are extremely lucky, so their bosses and collegues are all into BDSM (very unlikely)3) they have no relatives, so they don't risk to compromise their relationships with them because of BDSM4) all their relatives are into BDSM (very unlikely)5) the picture/s they are posting is/are not their own (they are fakes)Conclusion: I tend to trust more easily those people who don't publish any face picture on this kind of website. Those who do it are most likely fakes, or extremely lucky people.

8/5/2015 7:21:07 AM: Yes, I am real, and I can prove it with pictures and webcam.No, I will not publish face pictures here (...seriously?? Having a job, would you do that??)

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