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I am a naturally Dom Male with about 15 years experience and I am looking to meet a genuine sub fem who would actually appreciate being part of something special and unique. I am not a full on dungeon master, although I do have a lot of fun equipment. I can and will use punishements if required and I am more than willing to test you limits, pushing them when you feel you can take more as well as pushing them when I feel you can take more. It is not just savagely beating a girl that makes me a viable lifestyle Dom, I am also a kind and loving partner who understands the balance needed to have a succesful Domsub relationship. I am a kind and loving partner BUT I can also be playfully brutal, sadistic and very demanding when in a scene but always within agreed limits. I wont hesitate to use any of my selection of impact toys as this is a part of who I am and what I am into. I am looking for as many new BDSM experiences as possible while also looking for a LTR, so, if you are open minded and looking for occassional fuck meets in any style of kink from hardcore butal beatings, humiliation play, degredation play, control etc through to more sensual play (can be one, or all) OR for something more serious, regular play that could progress to that illusive LTR in any style of play then I really do want to hear from you. There is a lot more to me than just my Dom side so please feel free to chat and ask any questions you have. I pride myself on being open and honest as I know this is of utmost importance in Ds, afterall, if we cant talk openly and honestly how will we get all our fantasies out in the open for us to try? I am genuinely looking for an LTR but realise that most girls out there think this means they will be physically collared 247 and expected to be my slave at all times. Well, that is a great sounding fantasy and if you really want to try it we can but I know from real experience that there needs to be a vanilla aspect if it is to stand a chance of going the distance. It doesnt mean the Ds dynamic is not there, it just means we are able to exist as partners in many aspects of life and then relax into our chosen roles when alone ) I kind of think about it like this I may say what happens in the bedroom but I want to share the choice of what bed to buy and how to decorate it with you as my equal partner There is so much more to me than just my Dom side, I enjoy dancing and simple romance, walks, picnics (which admittadly can turn sexual if we find ourselves alone-lol).I am a self taught artist and have even sold in a gallery so please feel free to chat and take the time to get to know me, you never know I could be just what you are looking for and better still you could be just what I am looking for ) x Also, I have not put a face pic on here but will happily send themif we get chatting.

1/3/2016 8:16:37 AM So, I have been actively into BDSM in its various forms for atleast 15yearswith a run up to that point of sexual experimentation which showed me that I get a much bigger thrill from BDSM than I do from vanilla. What I have I learned about myself? I am a varied person when it comes to kink, I may not be aswitch and only really identify with being a Dominant but this is the thing, I dont need a specific type of play, I have enjoyed kink from simple kinky play through to being with some very masochistic experienced subs and slaves and I have always enjoyed it - so long as the girl I am with is able to actively participate, by that I mean that you need to be able to be "pro-active" in some way or form. I dont need a top from the bottom, I dont switch but I also lose interest when there is nothing resembling open communication and active imput, it doesnt have to be a list of demands or needs from my sub/slave it simply means that I prefer the stronger more intelligent sub/slave, one that is able to submit fully in play yet also has the ability to hold a sensible conversation about it afterwards, even having their own opinion and imput into the play as well as sugestions as to what she may enjoy next time (of course as the Dom this doesnt mean she will always get her way but it is always good to know when she is actively enjoying what is being done to her and when she is enjoying doing things simply because I like them). I suppose this makes me a little complex and even to some views on what is a good Dom (or the "twu dom" - lol) it may not even make me Dominant at all - but I am, I love being with sub fems, I love taking all the control from time to time but I also value a brain - in essence I want to Dom/own my sub/slave mind, body and soul BUT I want this as it is given and taken naturally and freely. I do agree that submission (and Dominance) are earned rather than given but lets face it, we are all kinky adults so it doesnt have to be a fight or a struggle, if I give My Dominance freely at the start it doesnt mean there is nothing to be earned in the future, there will always be more to have, the special little extras that are revealed along the way and to My mind this should be true for the sub/slave too - in otherwords dont treat submission like it is a finite thing that can run out at any time and just enjoy the fact that it can be given freely to a degree and the rest gets earned through time.