Collarspace

I am kind but strict. Harsh but caring. Loving but firm handed. I know how to relax and have fun with my sub, I can spoil her at times or tease her at other times. I like it when she teases me back and has some fight in her, but knows that beneath that she is still mine whenever I choose to pin her down. I believe you can treat a submissive as your equal while still owning her inside and out. To respect her as person, and set rules for her to obey while still being that same person.

Intelligence, education, drive, and personality are important traits in the submissive Im looking for. A woman worth dominating is a woman who is at my level. Im not interested in doormats.

The relationships I have with my subs are defined by more than my fetishes and kinks but by the nuances that make each relationship unique. No two Domsub relationships are the same. Some weigh closer to Masterslave while others are closer to Daddylittle. Labels dont matter and often times dont fit, because the dynamic has to feel natural for both people. It takes time to create a relationship like that but each one becomes special.

However, there are a few core kinks I have that I know I must share with my submissive. You can ask me to learn what those are and see if you share those as well.

Im not naive enough to think that I will find my perfect submissive next to me, so Im open to online relationships that have the potential of being more.