A representation of my ideal relationship is the one between Morticia and Gomez Addams. Read my journal posting of 10.23.13 (or 10.17.13, something is wrong with the dating and time on collarspace) to find out what I am looking for in a companion and read the rest of this profile to see how to get a response.
I only reward good behavior and do not indulge punishment seeking disobedience. I am looking for a relationship not sessions or one time encounters. After careful introspection and quite a bit of searching for answers I have come to the conclusion that I am a dominant person. I was in a relationship where I was spoiled and cosseted but it was not enough. I did not come to life unless the situations were about control and willpower. As I delve more and more into this lifestyle I recognize different characteristics of myself that I kept away from the light, fearing that they were not traits I should exhibit. I see now that in order to truly be happy I should embrace all parts of me instead of just the things that are deemed socially or culturally acceptable. I am excited about this new leg of my journey through life. I already know that I will have to pace myself and listen to my own responses instead of summarily rejecting things out of hand because I am worried about appearances or it is outside of my comfort zone.
Most of my relationships would be classified as female led. I have experience with corporal discipline although I prefer devious mental punishments. My fondest wish is that I would love to have two submissive yet strong males to be my personal guard dogs although this fantasy will probably never become reality. I once got into an argument with a partner of mine that accused me of trying to control him. I tried to explain to him that I don't want to force control on him rather I would wish for him to want to please me. In my future relationships I hope to forge a partnership with a companion where we can grow in this lifestyle.
On a lighter note, I am fascinated by a variety of different things and I am somewhat open to new experiences. I love the Three Stooges, Sherlock Holmes and the smell of a clean house with freshly laundered sheets on the bed. I enjoy traveling, reading and cooking but I hate cleaning up. I love animals of all kinds from the cuddliest puppy and kitten to the sleekest snake and frog. In fact the only animals that I don't like are cockroaches, flies, earwigs and mosquitoes. I even think ants have their own charm. I wish I was more of a fashionista but I can't quite see spending all that money on something so fleeting. I mean on quality items that will last longer than a season, sure but $400 for some Chanel flip flops? I don't think so. Lately, my interests have turned to motorcycling, marksmanship and learning a foreign language. At some point in the next 5 years I also would like to get my pilot's license (the streets are getting too crowded).Well I think I have rambled on long enough.
I do not mind you making the first move; however, in your message you must tell me your favorite movie, book or song. If I can think of anything else of significance to add I'll post a note. A
P.S. Smoking is a hard limit for me; however I am not opposed to allowing the occasional cigar (semi-yearly) as long as proper protocol is observed.
The unwarranted use of foul language is another hard limit. If you smash your finger in the car door you are allowed to curse. If you just sprinkle it liberally in conversation you will be disciplined. Cursing while being disciplined will result in double punishment ;-).
