BDSM is not just some fantasies that a Dom or a sub would just dream about . Not just about being tied in bed or just used in a way that arouses you . BDSM is a state of mind that takes control over your emotions . A state of mind that makes you realize who you really are and discover the truth about your character , eager to learn and discover more and more about it .
Submission is not just a physical thing . It includes physical submission but it starts in a MENTAL where the Dom slowely working his way into the sub brain seducing her senses and ignite her submissive part inside her
5/18/2013 2:58:49 PM: 'Leadership by example'
3/8/2009 7:46:59 PM: I beleive that every one in this life is either a Dom or a sub . You just need to try to figure out who you really are and explore your inner desires .
3/8/2009 7:44:32 PM: What i'm sure about , is that ppl here does not really understand this life style . Dom/sub relationship is not just a fantasy . Not something that you can just dream about and imagine yourself in such a relation . It is a life style that is about trust in the first place .