I am a suit wearing, clean cut, old fashioned, daddy Dom, no tattoos, who is not interested in superhero movies or any of the dumb aspects of modern pop culture. I'm not like a lot of the men on this site, who largely strike me as delusional slobs and half wits. I prefer my weekends to involve things like old movies, whiskey with a twist and passionate love making mixed in with quite a bit of kink and relaxation with a service minded submissive woman I will cherish, guide and protect.

I had to release my last dear slave, now far better situated than I found her, and I am now seeking a loyal, hard working classically feminine woman who wants to achieve her full potential both personally and sexually. I'm supremely confident and my subs are far better off with my accountability. This is real, not play for me, but nothing is rushed into, either.

I have a master's degree in my field, 20 years plus in kink, I exercise regularly and am very uninhibited sexually and personally.

I am by no means rich, but I have lived overseas and traveled extensively. I pride myself on my ethics, being safe, yet being able to get inside the head of submissive women and letting them know they are controlled and cared for. I have a hard time emotionally relating to women in a vanilla context and find power exchange relationships far more fulfilling and intimate. A woman's submission is a gift I cherish.

I bring structure, rules and heavy power exchange to my relationships. You will play a large part in setting your own goals and creating your own rules. I will enforce them as a lifestyle.

I like my women dressed a certain way ideally: heels, skirts and lingere are absolutely required. Nails, hair and makeup will be impeccable, at least when you are with me. You need not be a masochist, but you must have a mindset to please.

Feel free to message me if this sounds like you. I'm quite friendly and real.

You will be safe, protected, cared for, yet tested. I enjoy playing at all levels from playful to intense with people of all shapes, sizes and orientations provided they are fun and communicative as I am. I do not host at this time. I belong to APEX and am involved in the community. I will not start barking out orders before we even meet. I will get to know you over a meal or drink before we start. Be real, be honest and communicate and we will have fun.

Pictures after contact.