I'm searching for a personal version of sexual perfection I have come close to on several occasions, but have yet to find. my tastes are kinky, but fun and creative. they can be identified as bdsm in that I am naturally Dominant sexually and am looking for a woman who thrives in the submissive role, but then again labels are such a lazy necessity to communicate what we're trying to say. so some details should help to make it a little clearer:

- first off, this is for fun sex play - not a lifestyle or 24/7 or TPE as some people into bdsm term it. the thought of being one way with someone all the time is not something I find very interesting and I hope to find a partner who feels the same.

- creativity, intelligence, charm and a highly developed aesthetic sense are all must haves. we're after adventures of the senses here. so a good background in matters of culture - photography, art, fashion, film, yes even web savvy are all prerequisites for informing amazing sexual adventures.

- that said, only a certain, limited level of pretentiousness is acceptable. better put, you can be pretentious, but just be self-aware of when you're being pretentious. we're not going to be sitting around talking about Jean-Luc Godard whenever we're not having sex. but still, you should know who and what he is.

- fitness, being attractive, having a winning, positive, fun and yes caring attitude about those around you are all baseline prerequisites. if you're the sex goddess of the northern hemisphere but not a decent person, I have no interest...and you should feel the same about me, of course. (btw, I am all of the above)

- also, as shallow as this sounds, I would like to find someone around my age or younger. but exceptions will always be made for the right situation.  A Daddy/babygirl dynamic is a big plus, but not a prerequisite. 

if this describes you or intrigues you, write me back and tell me about yourself and what you're after. don't be shy to try to impress a little. be sure to at least describe yourself or, preferably, provide a pic.