Some blunt and friendly advice when you contact me if you don't want to get snark from me so we don't spoil each other's day. This also helps you and helps me filter if we will get along or not. And you WILL get snark from me if you demand of me anything I already upfront said no to, as I am tired of doms who has reading comprehension problems contacting me.
1) Please stroll down to the end and look at my hard limits and maybe have a glance at my journal to decide if there is any compatibility first, before you contact me. My list of pictures are a pretty good indication of the style of D/S I enjoy too. If that resonates with you, contact me.
2) I am not a service sub, so look away if you are looking for one, I'm just a sexual bottom who is motivated by sexual consensual non-consensual-ish based bdsm treatment. If this makes sense to you, then do contact me!
3) Do not ask for my face picture, you're a stranger and I will never trust you with it.
4) Do not ask me to webcam, I do not have a camera on my PC
5) Do not dictate where you want me to chat with you in, and then throw a kiddy tantrum at me when I refuse to use those mediums with you, whether skype or yahoo etc. Best is to exchange messages with me through collarspace messaging system. If we establish a closer friendship, we may move on to emails, but I don't have time to focus on real time instant chats as I am often multitasking.
6) If you send me criticizing negative messages, be prepared to get plenty of negativity and hostility in return, so I suggest, don't bother. Respectful, friendly and nice people will get the same good behaviour from me in return.
7) One liners will not be responded to, I am not a one liner person, so I already know mentally we won't click if you are a shy one liner as I think you are giving me a bad impression of your leadership capabilities as a dom, if you expect me to lead the conversation. So I know we won't suit.
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About ME
I am single, available and divorced from a vanilla marriage with no children. I'm looking to be with a laid-back, loving, naturally dominant straight male, who wants a family of his own with me, and as well as have a life long fun kinky sexual relationship together.
I am introverted and not very good at small talk. But I see myself as a loyal, nurturing and encouraging person. I am a better listener than I am of a conversation leader. I believe in men and women traditional roles, growing up, I felt so much pressure to do everything a man can do, and to be everything a man can be. But it's just what society pushes women to do these days. It's not what I want. I want to be second in command, to be a man's support system, his assistant, but not be the one leading him. I want my priorities to be the needs of my husband and my children. For me, I think I am only successful in life if I had a happy husband and emotionally, mentally and physically healthy children. Career achievements and goals means nothing to me. It's something I've been fed that I should be ambitious and aim for those things, but it never made me happy or fulfilled, and I feel empty without a man to care for.
I am also a woman who is completely comfortable with my sexuality and fully embrace the gift that is given to me, being a woman and what we can experience sexually, and I revel in it. I work best with a man who understands a woman's body and the heights he could bring her, and also a man who doesn't hold any derogatory double standards towards women enjoying sex for sex.
I love movies, live music, reading romance novels, inline skating, snorkeling, diving, traveling, wining and dining, and live for calculated thrills and adventures.
My Ideal Life Partner
The kind of dominant I am looking for will believe that the true strength in a man is not measured by dominating the weak, but by possessing, subduing, controlling and conquering that which is powerful. (Reference: AE William)
He would be tall, 5'11 and above, big like 200lbs and above, and older than me up to 53 yr old max. He would understand me, and I would be able to trust him to take care of my physical, mental and emotional well-being. He should believe that love and D/S can co-exist together and infact IS the ingredient that makes the relationship most fulfilling. He needs to be articulate and be good in communication.
He would make me crave for his physical attentions on me, be lusty and have a mighty sex drive that could match mine, love giving sexual attentions to his sub. I have an insatiable ability to multiple cum for long hours, and I need a man who thinks that's heaven to be with and not get bored with it.
We should be able to have deep and meaningful conversations together, joke and laugh together and be able to do normal vanilla things together too. Be my best friend.
He would be gentlemanly, stable, mature, patient, calm and good tempered, with a great sense of humour during play and likes cats. He should be sane and have a realistic understanding of how a D/S relationship can mesh with real life successfully. He should have good social and communication skills, and be cool, calm and chill when dealing with conflicts.
And no married men please. I'm seeking an exclusive committed long term relationship with the intention of marriage and starting a family together. Where we could be positive, loving, encouraging and supportive towards each other and sexually rock each other world, sharing complimentary kinky interests and cravings. I would worship you, love you, and revolve my schedule as much as possible around you and your convenience if necessary to make us work. I believe when there is deep love and trust, alot of things can be worked out.
BDSM should just be two people having fun together, enjoying each other, be playful with each other and not so dreary with all the fixations on protocols, that's my opinion.
You may want to read my journal to get the feel of me and decide from there if we have anything in common, before you contact me.
(PS: I notice half of the stuffs I write in here have been wiped out. None of the colours and font size works anymore. The atting is broken. Will need to find time to re-do my profile. My hard Limits list is missing)