I have a submissive personality - became aware of it through interaction with others when I was in high school/college. I was growing up in India and had no real life experience or didn't know about bdsm - I just had submissive personality traits generally. The whole thing made more sense after I got to know about BDSM.

I am looking for a mentor/Dom who can take me deeper into this lifestyle - someone who is genuinely dominant without being aggressive or rude from the beginning, intelligent and imaginative and knows what he wants out of this.I expect him to be able to set the agenda for me and for us once I submit. I am intensely drawn to the power exchange aspects of this lifestyle - I think it is the essence. It is not so much about my fantasies- I think being submissive means I am drawn to the idea of fulfilling fantasies of dominant people. (of course not just anyone but someone with whom I have a good understanding/rapport). In terms of specifics, I am open to bondage, control, humiliation, service - less interested in pain. It is not an absolute limit - but if pain is your primary kink, we won't be a good match.

I am flexible about limits and willing to expand my boundaries in every way. I have limits but those are based not on my likes but on safety. I hate all toilet play - it is unhygienic. No blood/injury or heavy torture. No kids, no pregnancy. Other than that, I will be flexible.

Important Announcement:  I recently moved to Washington. (the state not D.C). I am very close to Portland, Oregon. I am technically in Washington, but actually most people would say I live in Portland!

 I posted a few more photos - so please don't pester me about more photos. I will share more as we progress.  Also I am quite busy during the week, so please be patient and don't expect quick responses. I am a real woman, not a fantasy model or webcam model! I got a few responses asking why I didn't find someone - I was not looking for long term submission until recently, my submission was mostly session oriented. Now willing to take it to the next level.