My name is Jasmine, I am a non op submissive crossdresser who goes that extra length like a TV with hair and on occasion make up. I am seeking a long term arrangement by preference with ownership. I'd like to live 24/7 but in my current circumstances thats not possible, so until it happens I am a part timer.

I am looking for a relationship, with someone who wants to spend days together not hours because the wife will be home anytime after X O Clock

My circumstances have changed and I now live with relatives so I CANNOT ACCOM. My travel range is hindered by having the worsed run of luck with timewasters, if you are more than an hours travel or the logistics is over a certain amount, I am unlikely to travel. If you want a Hotel Meet close to me, thats upto you.

Due to timewasters the following applies

1). Any meets arranged will begin with an initial social at a pub or cafe close to the Train, Coach or Bus Station I am traveling to or near the hotel, this initial social will be with me in MALE MODE. Im not out and proud and I don't go out of my home dressed.

2) You will provide some ID at this social meeting. I arrange safe calls with a friend who knows I am meeting someone. Refusal will lead to no meet. If you refuse while at the pub, you'll go home disappointed.

I take my personal safety seriously, if you do not reciprocate you will be considered a FAKE. There are too many unsafe people on these sites, expecting a naive submissive they can do whatever they want to without repurcussions, due to the submissive not taking precautions, I am way passed that level of naivity and not desperate for attention

I will only meet single men or married men where their partner has told me to my face she's ok with me playing her husband. If she doesn't know, I don't want to either. I want a relationship, not to dodge your other half because you don't get it at home anymore and you're too chickenshit to tell them you want a divorce.

Obviously this doesn't apply if you are a couple who both play. Your partner does not need to play, she just needs to know and I need to know, she knows, because she has told me, personally.

My kink list indicates the things I like, if those things are not on your list, its unlikely we'll get on. If our mutual needs are not compatible, why bother? If you insist on suggesting things I am flat out not interested in, I will  just presume you want to be blocked.

I am Gay and thus sexually only interested in cock. I am also a size queen, if you do not have 7inches or more, please dont try your luck. I'm fed up of men with ED issues trying to get me to have sex, Once you've had it so big, anything else just doesn't cut it.   IF you have a female Domme partner, I will meet her, I may serve her, but single females I have no interest in.

I ideally seek a Master or a Dominant MM couple. Where both are Dominant.  I will accept a Dominant MF couple, again where both are Dominant.

I am diabetic and have issues downstairs. If you are seeking a submissive for cum related activities or denial I am not the submissive for you.

I would like to settle down with someone interested in a long term relationship, I will serve domestically or sexually. I love bondage and being in it for long periods. Diabetes incurs some issues with longer term or unsupervised play. I can submit to some pain play but nothing excessive, my condition does not let me recover from injuries caused, if you are one of those people who expects a pain slut, look elsewhere.

I have a fetish for older men who are 50+, but will play with younger who tick the appropriate boxes. Id prefer them to be Pansexual or Gay.

I have had a rough time with fakes and such, so I have a few demands concerning how we break the ice. If you are a Dominant who thinks these demands are topping from the bottom, I will not change my approach to ice breakers, because 9 times out of 10, someone who doesnt like them, turns out to be FAKE.


I will discuss any activities, which do not surmount to cyber play. I do not do online or phone play. I will confirm my identity by phone call, but not participate in phone sex. I will ONLY do real meets, everything else is fake to me.

The chatroom seldom works for me so I will say here that any attempt to chat on the chatrooms will be declined. I will not go to private emails, especially to send personal pics. If my profile pics do not do it for you, thats all your going to see. I will expect to swap phone numbers if either a phone call is essential for identity or proof of life, or if a meet has been arranged so we can keep in contact on the day. Unless we arrange to play I will not just throw my phone number to anyone who asks.

Some people accuse me of not being submissive because I wont say yes to everything said to me online, I give you my submission, ONLY when I meet you in person. If you think I should give you it from the first message, go back to wanking to porn.

Hope there is a Dominant out there I can talk to and arrange to play with.

Jasmine