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CarpeEros
Hetero Male, 39, Mount Airy MD, Maryland 
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CarpeEros
Single, and not looking for relationship or sex 2018 noteOk, thats been the opener for over a year...am starting to come out of my shell, but weary read on Friends, if there are who sincerely seek it, are welcome. My personal 100 non-commercial (no ads) BDSM website was first online almost 20 years ago..recently relaunched, see LovingIntensity.com to see if we connect as friends see the ESSAYS section for what may help you on your journey of self discovery. See the LETTERS section of LovingIntensity for some of the fan mail Ive gotten over the years from women across the country (printed with their consent of course) if youre curious. Both may help you on your journey even if we never talk or are just friends. Those who see that and seek potentailly more than friends, see the EROTICA section of LovingIntensity. (My personal website is far more relevant than my Alt account Ive not used for over a years but my Index of my Alt blog **HERE**)



Look at yourself, your needs, society, and this world with open eyes, an outside the box mind, and a caring heart - doing all at the same time is the hard part )

Friends welcome and sub women (and any Thinking Person) check out my personal, 100 NON-commercial website LovingIntensity.com with Essays, philosophy, and my own Erotica about which many women have said very nice things ok, rest of old profile follows. Which believe it or not, for years has the gloved hand holding crystal heart pic currently my third, as the main profile picture



Intelligent, sensual, empathic, loving, yet Intense Dom. Whether as potential friend or more, if mind, heart, and emotions matter to you, see one of the most classy sites out there on BDSM, with my own essays and erotic stories is my personal (100 Non-commercial) site youll be glad you looked at LovingIntensity.com (old site IntenseLoving soon removed) ,com .. I put my heart soul into it. Scores of women have said very nice things about the erotica Ive penned, so why not have a read? Hope you enjoy -) But like my essays, they are also is a window into my mind and heart, and might help novices and more experienced subs alike in their own journey into the heart of Ds the mentalemotionalpsychological angles. Website also has about me including copies of my Alt profile (CarpeEros) and more.

Turn-ons include women who are intelligent, thinking, and thoughtful (one can be intelligent without being either of the latter, which are more important than the first alone) and who understand that compassion and caring are not only key but are a true radical departure - instead of seeing gentleness and empathy and softness (including at certain times in a Dom) as bad or naive, which is what our culture unfortunately teaches, so reproducing the same attitudes in BDSM is anything but radical.

You need to also be ok or better, happy about this too dont expect narrow stereotypical male behavior from me. Just because I can be a geek, or feminist, egalitarian at times, doesnt prevent me from utterly making the woman my slut-slave at other times, and making her feel shes mine all the time.

Turn-ons also include women who do not buy into the idea that just because they are female, or subs, means they should never make first contact on a website like this (hint, hint). If there are real things in common after seeing my website, why not contact me even if its for just friendship. Whether its destined to be more than friendship or not, respectful friendship is never a just.

If youre read this far, please do have a look at my growing collection of essays, erotica, and more at Lovingintensity.com If the above intrigues you, you will not regret taking the time to explore the website, theres nothing quite like it on the web. I also welcome just friendly hellos from any potential friend - thinkers, cerebral, quirky, who dont think being polite, gentle, and kindness are a sign of weakness the mainstream culture (TV etc) is toxic, so its not just sexuality where more progressive alternatives may be preferred.
3/21/2023 11:41:18 AM: Cute animated amoji creatures saying 'Welcome Back' at the login screen, as I'm sure others have noticed.   Since I've joined with others in trying to politely point out bugs and issues with the system in the past, it's only fair to mention this, small as it is, put a little smile on my face, so thumbs up for this one, admins :-)

3/18/2023 3:59:57 PM: Sadly there are those (let's call this hypothetical collection of CS profiles, 'demographic X'), who will judge you, and make all sorts of bigoted assumptions about you, and twist your words beyond any recognition and to such extremes that it would make a pretzel blush, all based, largely, on your demographics. Now, such an X couldn't pretend to twist my words into sexual interest, since I directly mentioned among other things, my being asexual...but there are 100 other ways to twist your words and reach the goal of being 'offended'. For example, by pretending that my writing has to do with *their* category, when, as I alluded to in passing, and when in reality, I've sent over the last 10 years, more than a few similar (not at all identical, but similar in writing style, tone etc) friendly notes, a gentle, polite, friendly query asking for clarification, to those of different category(what's a French word for 'type', again?)...who were almost all of them quite appreciative, and usually even thanked me, for the inquiry and for my gentle suggestion they might, perhaps, want to consider clarifying a thing or two in self-description, as well as clarify/answer my question.. Great! So it had nothing to do with the demographics of such an X. It's not fully clear whether the scorched earth reply(to things not remotely related to what I actually said), had to do with my demographic in general, of my demographic only since they also now were aware that I was asexual, therefore not interested in X; either way, horrible motive, even if might have been only a subconscious motive rather than conscious one... and either way, putting 100 things in my mouth I didn't come within a mile of saying.. twisting a cordial, polite note which in fact,  bent over backward to be friendly, not assuming anything by me..and twist it to a super-pretzel and then unleash a stream of hate that would impress anyone in Hades.. And folks wonder why one has not only turned (not quite completely but nearly fully) asexual and also with ever-lower views of the Current State of the Human Race. (there is at least some truth to the adage that 'no good deed [or kind gesture] goes unpunished' but the many times it was appreciated, are happy memories, happy enough so eventually, I'll again make such a deed/gesture) We will not point a finger at the inherent worth and longer-term potential of the human race; I still hope and even believe we will slowly over decades and centuries become better. Among other things, getting out of the extreme social, psychological, financial, emotional, self-image, etc stress that so many fellow human beings around seem to be in, surely would help. Hence the comment above was about not 'the human race' but the 'current state of' our species and society. Ah well. A nice walk in beautiful nature with sunshine, does, and did, a lot of positive healing, and works wonders.  

12/20/2022 10:45:10 PM: Fun keywords to try typing into Craiyon website for AI generated.. I was going to upload to profile just for fun but sadly there is less and less that one is allowed to include there, it seems, even though AI is not a copyright-owning person. I've been G rated in my efforts in the past but just tried:   kinky spanking party   Got some amusing, low resolution but cute, rooms of  what looks like bodies in lingerie..Not bad. I suspect something v explicit like words for sex acts like f*cking would be disallowed but this three word prompt worked. Let's see if    kinky party spanking gets something very different.Hmm not bad. Try posting your own if there's a way to post here on CS You can add terms like 'illustration', 'photorealistic', 'high definition' in Craiyon. Well Erotic Spanking High Resolution is more comical like the other fails of this rather small AI model.. Try Illustration instead of High Definition Higher Res text to image AI models, which I haven't tried are Midjourney, and Stable Diffusion (just found article online called Top Image Generators to Try Apart from DALL-E and Midjourney that lists others I haven't even heart of) These are much higher resolution than the sort of toy model that is at the Craiyon website, which is DALL-E Mini as opposed to the full DALL-E, or these other fancy ones that need registration I think most of them do at least By 2030, watch out, maybe indistinguishable from Adult Film pics or vids. Strange but interesting times ahead

8/29/2022 3:45:52 PM: While I've got an idea or two, anyone care to suggest the meaning of ' G-spot Service' in preferences? First I read a Journal by a (sub,iirc)woman expressing her frustration that CollarSpace literally removed two of her old prefs (one preferrence, one anti-pref) and replaced them with two new phrases, one of which was G-spot...(can't recall the other). Now randomly found a profile listing it in dislikes. My own theory ;) is that: 'G-spot service' refers to Machine Learning, or an AI, which finds a spare Spot at the parking *Garage*, finds that Garage-spot for you automatically, and automatically parks your car.   Thus those who think it has to do with the female anatomy, and that P-Spot service for the male prostate is the analog, are WRONG...'P-Spot service' means the same thing, only phrased differently: The AI finds you a 'P' or 'Parking' spot. If you haven't figured out this is very dry humor, yes, I *am* kidding!      On a serious note though -- surely vanilla wives, neither submissive nor dominant, massage their male partner's prostate sometimes, so surely G-spot 'service' should be BDSM-neutral too. Heck just plain old fashioned cunnilingus can be used by a male Dom on a female sub (while rare, I've even seen a couple Domme profiles on how she uses blowjobs to control/make male sub beg etc) but is some more narrow view intending 'G spot service' in people's prefs to mean only subs to Dommes? The term 'service' would appear to suggest that. Needless to say, CS just changing words on all profiles is not nice. That's after a while ago, changing all 'bi' to 'pan' (I've heard of the term but still found it funny seeing it overnight be so so common; I don't even drink, but ended up laughing pretty hard, imaging it means, 'I'm into drinking Pan galactic gargle blaster drinks' -- Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy reference, btw) In CS's defense, they might be short on funds/hours, and it's true that software change can be hard, if one wants to add an option, instead of renaming an existing one. Still, I hope they are more careful in the future. Heck even give us a Poll and if you're worries we'll go all Torches and Pitchforks on you, CS, make it so we can't see the results but you'll at least get the 'pulse' of CS users on which ways to tweak software we're for/against/neutral. OTOH, most of the universe is cold, cold, empty space and with current technology, can't support human life, so we're still pretty lucky to be alive on this small but beautifully inhabitable planet.. Let's try not to F it up, or at least let's slow down how rapidly we F it up though, ok?

8/22/2022 4:09:21 PM: Usually a bad idea to 'get into a pissing contest with that skunk' of any type Let alone one which has already demonstrated in public.. Hateful prejudice, bigotry, stereotyping and hypocrisy. Not a suggestion to anyone in particular. Well, mostly not..  We each have a journey during our short stay on this little planet, not an easy one, but can be worthwhile. The serenity to ignore ills one can't do much about, courage to address the ones we can, wisdom to try to decide which is which.

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