My partner and I have been living in the DC area for about two years and we are both looking to make new friends in the local community. I cut my teeth on kink back in Seattle a decade ago. My passions include physical domination, edge play, and thinking outside the toy bag. I believe in the reality of the BDSM lifestyle rather than the fantasy part. I run away from drama, I tell great stories, I love stimulating conversations, and can cook a mean dinner. I have my quirks, my opinionated thoughts, and a reputation for being an a**hole at times. However, I take good care of those I call my friends, I believe in honesty, and I always try to enrich the lives of the people I associate with. We are looking for friends in the scene first, and only seek play if it comes natural. If you are interested in chatting, meeting for coffee, or just want to give me some advice on the local scene please drop me a line.