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I am looking to see what prospects are out there. First of all, I am now married but seek companionship within the lifestyle and outside my marriage. Do not judge me for seeking this out, you do not know me or my circumstances I expect discretion and do not plan on changing my status at this moment. I'm not a professional Dom or one that claims to have all this experience. I just know me and know my abilities and work within them. I do seek to expand my knowledge though. I'm not a cruel or insensitive Dom but can be firm when need be. I haven't alot of experience per se, as a Dom, but am dominate by nature.  Am clean and very discreet and open minded. I'm professionally employed, I enjoy the outdoors and looking for other open minded people. I dont believe one needs to treat subs or slaves as door mats, or with cruel and harsh treatment. There are times when punishment must be administered to keep the sub/slave in line. I believe you should have your own mind and have the ability to think on your own at times. I'm not a control freak or abusive man but I know what I want and what I'm looking for in a sub/slave. I believe the sub should behave approprietely in public and be respectful of others. I do enjoy public play or should I say playfulness in public without taking it to the extreme. Behind closed doors, what we do is our business and I expect the sub/slave to act accordingly and be their true self. I dont think eccessive verbal abuse or demeaning actions are required, this only gives the sub/slave a low self esteem. The sub/slave, in my opinion should be placed on a pedestal, to be admired and cherished for thier contributions, not degraded to a point where they only feel resentment towards their Dom/Master. I give respect where respect is due and praise when praise is due. And, firmness and punishment when it is due as well. I am not a harsh punisher, leaving welts or bruises, there are many ways to punish the sub/slave without leaving lasting marks.
I have a life outside this lifestyle, one that appears normal so to speak, to the public at large. I love the outdoors, camping, fishing, backpacking, canoeing, hunting....bow hunting especially. If you read this far and can get past the "married" part, feel free to e-mail me but be respectful and show me you can write more than one sentence and know how to spell. I do have pictures but choose not to post them on here. You should have pics available to share as well.
Ktishere
 
 Age: 45
  Indiana