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I like the song Broken Like Me, by LovelytheBand. I tried to put a link in here with youtube, but the editors trashed it. The reason I like the song is because I have always gotten along well with women who are different, who dont dance to the usual drummer, who are unique, who even had some bad times in the past. So the song reminds me of the kind of women with whom I have an affinity.

Let me know if anything appeals to you in my profile. Of course, it will now take weeks for editing my profile to be approved. This is like the tv ads that say please allow 4-6 weeks for delivery.

Trust is the most intimate part of a Ds relationship.

I am not able to leave journal entries anymore. Has this feature been disabled?

I notice that king is what is left whenever I try to write something that begins with sp. Curious editing of that word by this site!

It is emotionally delightful to know a woman who is submissive at heart, and who accepts her nature. You are my kind of woman, even though you may be a rare find.
There is certainly a line between an abusive relationship and a positive Ds relationship. Unluckily many of those who seek the latter, wind up with the other type of relationship.
Many relationships involve a man who hates women, and a woman who believes she deserves his hatred. Some women may settle for this kind of a relationship. Perhaps a few thrive on it. But this is far from what I want.

Have you realized that *vanilla* is no longer satisfactory?

If sp...king appeals to you...you will understand that sp...king can be so...sensual...so intimate...so wonderful! Yes, if you are in any way stimulated by impact play, then that is hot to me. I do not believe in beating but I am into sensual, disciplinary or therapeutic impact play. If you believe that there is any way that we could be compatible do not hesitate to contact me. At this stage in my life, I am not looking for marriage. But I am not a playah either.

Motto Do no harm.

You must be a woman whose nature is unalterably submissive. You must be a woman who emotionally responds to a dominant male. If you know that you need a man who loves and respects a loving, submissive woman, then I am your ticket!

I love a woman who loves adult toys, such as vibrators, maybe dildos, or maybe you got some fun toys of your own?

I used to think that rules and protocol were rather silly in a Ds relationship. But I have come to believe that a few good, clear Rules can really enhance the dynamic, allowing both the Dom and the sub to readily appreciate...enhance...the power exchange and control involved in the relationship. Wadda-you-think?



There are some real sweetheart women in collarmecollarspace, but there is such a scarcity of any in my region of the country. I know this area is not densely populated, and there are (too) many bible thumpers in this section of the country. (I have noticed that religious women are generally submissive, and often kinky---but also often puritanical. I can respect religious persons, so long as they can respect that I am not religious and so long as religion does not interfere with the joy of kinkiness.) Surely there is one, just one, who is nice, sweet, submissive, and has an adventurous and kinky nature?



I love music of all kinds, movies, museums, good food and...the many things of interest in our universe. I love a woman who is a decent cook. Would a 50s household work well with you?



Let us be clear I DO believe in safe, sane activities. I would never want any harm to come to a sweet submissive (or even a submissive who is not purely sweet! )

Everybodys got limits. I recognize limits.

Yes the S(adist) word is part of my nick-name here. I know that the S word has some taboo notions to it. I am an Erotic Sadist. A woman who has at least some masochistic parts to her character is HOT! (Yes I know that the M(asochist) word also has negative baggage to it for some!) She does not have to be a pain-slut (depending how that is defined!), and she should not be a pure masochist---if there is such a person.

I am willing to help you relocate.I am single, straight, drug-free, disease-free,non-smoker, good health, and in decent physical shape.Photo exchange desired.

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10/2/2023 4:57:24 AM

 I am trying to get this journal feature to work.

Submissive women, you are the greatest. Message me if you have any interst!


3/14/2022 6:52:53 PM

Submissive women are the nicest people on earth! Yeah, some are bratty, or even bitchy, but that may be a way to get attention,. Also, a sub probably has a history of abuse, and a good Dom and Master needs to appreciate that.,  Most of all, a true sub needs a Dom and Master! If you don't fully agree with what I say here, message me. Let me know. I would be interested in a different point of view. Better yet, I am interested in learning more about the nature of submissive womanhood.  


4/1/2018 6:05:46 AM
I have seen entries on "contracts." I think that a negotiated contract could be quite cool. A little set of rules are pretty cool. No need to have pages of rules. Just 10 or 20 is plenty. It is fun to even have some rather frivolous...fun and frivolous! Rules and contracts are something to talk about, and they make for boundaries. They require communication and understanding...so important...so vital. Last and not least, they set the tone for who is the dominant and who is the follower.
Viva rules!

2/5/2017 10:03:27 AM
I never see or hear any comments about being fingered. I love to explore a woman's "nest" with my finger, or perhaps a couple of fingers. I love to do it for long periods of time. Is there a nice (or not nice :-) woman who likes to be touched this way? Love to hear what a woman thinks about being fingered.

10/22/2007 6:47:47 AM
There is nothing wrong with being a SLUT. YOU need to get in touch with both your inner slut and your outer slut! I am one Dom who believes that sluts are the greatest. Why shouldn't a woman explore and celebrate her desires? And yes, there is nothing wrong with loving, admiring and enjoying cocks. Why not? It is a woman's privilege!  
How many times do I see a woman who says she does not want to be "shared"; that she is a one man woman, etc. I DO understand---I totally realize---that a woman recoils at the idea of being touched by and having to touch others who are not appealing---who are repugnant. Yes that would be disgusting. But a woman should celebrate the joys of touching and sucking guys other than her hubby or boyfriend if she finds other guys hot---and she and her man are totally open about it!

1/1/2007 7:55:25 AM
Happy new year to all! May you find who you are looking for. How is this for a resolution? Let us all resolve to do a better job of describing ourselves, our tastes, our interests, etc. 
And the more conventional resolution: Let us smoke less, eat less, exercise more, enjoy being with someone to love, and last but not least:
 Let us all venture into the zones of where our yearnings will to take us!

12/19/2006 4:10:15 PM
Have you noticed, oftentimes, that people describe who they DON'T want for a tryst, a lover or partner---but fail to say who they DO want? Leaves a person to wonder...

12/17/2006 11:24:17 AM
I have always had a special place in my heart for a bad girl---someone who just can't keep her mind away from a special itch to be bad. 

11/16/2006 5:45:46 PM
There are a few things that have long held my fancy. These things may or may not meet your yearnings. Yet, if you are a true submissive you should be able to adapt. First, I like to work on your fears and desires of being a slut. Even if you have always said you are a one man woman, you still have to admit that you have THOUGHT about being promiscuous! Or what about bi-curiosity!

11/8/2006 4:18:15 PM
I like to spank, especially those who need to be spanked. We don't have to say much to each other. We don't even have to be friends, do anything together, etc---although I would prefer being friends. You can merely show up and follow my instructions---such as to have your little panties pulled down and slowly get taps, and touches and swats...as your emotions, your intellect and your spirit dwells on each pass. Your endorphins flow, and that pain-pleasure divide stays right on the edges! 

You can break into the netherworld. You can cry if need be and I will then hold and comfort you until you are able...

1/30/2005 5:36:18 AM
One frequently reads the complaints that there are phony, insincere and immature players in this scene. Are there really such? Of course, there are many who are phony, insincere and immature. Welcome to the real world! You just have to sort out the wheat from the chaff. There are at least a few REAL people, and I will find one here. Remember, you are only looking for one really cool Master. Let the rest of the babes have the others! 

1/27/2005 6:17:51 AM
Seeking the ever elusive woman slave, the one whose soul begs to surrender to the will of a Dominant Man. She is submissive by nature yet all woman in every sense of the word and she accepts her place in submission.

1/22/2005 12:01:31 PM
A woman has an awesome amount of nerve endings between her legs, all of which are so very nicely receptive to pain. A woman's natural preference and NEED is for stimulation of her most sensitive receptors. Oftentimes, it is assumed that a woman's sensitive parts are supposed to be tickled and caressed for "pleasure." Is the natural NEED of a woman pleasure or is it pain? Is it a mix of pain & pleasure? Let's focus on the ultimate desire of woman!

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memphisvixen
 
 Age: 24
 Houston, Texas