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First, while I know some people don't like it, and many on this site consider it an automatic deal-breaker, I do not keep pictures on My profile for professional reasons. However, I do have recent pictures I can share if interested.
I am a Dom with 2 live-in slaves (the first for over 18 years, and the second for more than 8 years now) living with Me in a poly relationship. I love many of the physical aspects of the lifestyle, such as restraints, orgasm control, breath control, hair pulling, spanking (flogging, caning, and paddling), as well as wax/knife/blade play just to name a few. While I no longer have My own dungeon (and yes I do miss it), I do have a nice variety of floggers, crops, canes, blades, restraints, etc to use on My slaves. In addition, I truly love the emotional and mental aspects of being a Master: teaching a submissive to be My slave, valuing their submission to Me, ensuring that they trust Me with every part of their being, and making them feel protected and cherished every day they are with Me.
I don't do humiliation as, ultimately, I think it is harmful to all involved.
I never force a slave to obey. I compel.
I value communication and trust, and I am willing to start slow in order to earn it. It is impossible to build a lasting relationship as Master and slave without both. Also, I believe in being patient with My newer slaves. It takes time to learn, and to build an understanding of one another.
I am rational and experienced sadist. I know that I need to learn the pleasure-to-pain threshold of any slave that I play with in order for that slave to trust me, and for the slave to enjoy what do with/to them. I pay attention to My slaves in all that I do with/to them to make sure things never go too far or too fast. Lastly, I try to remain within the pleasure threshold of My slave as her sadist (but am willing to push the limits of that threshold when I feel it safe to do so).
I know that the difference between sadism and abuse is consent.
At this time, both of My slaves have been branded, via a tattoo of My design, as being Mine - so they do not always have to wear a collar (although each of them has a nice collection of collars and will will them as directed). I would expect any live-in slave of Mine to be so branded in time.
If you’re curious, have questions, or would like to talk, I look forward to hearing from you. If W/we begin exchanging emails, chatting, etc, and if you wish to (or feel the need to) talk with either (or both) of My slaves, I will arrange that with them. I keep no secrets from them, so they will know about you and W/we have talked about before they begin talking with you.
Since I have been asked this question several times, here is the answer that I came up with:
What do I consider "kinky"?
To Me "kinky" is learning a sub's limits (hard or soft) and, together, pushing the envelope of those limits.
To sum it all up: I love, cherish, and value My slaves for their service and submission. I treasure them greatly, and will always protect them fiercely.
Lastly, in addition to My slaves, I currently have 5 cats and 1 dog.
Quote: My grandfather, in teaching Me fencing, used to make Me stand for minutes at a time, watching for the movement of his blade that would give Me an opening. I suspect that he knew full well that he was teaching Me more than fencing....When the moment came, I was ready.
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