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CanyonRider

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Experienced Master, who marches to a little different drum, searching for a sub/slave who longs to have balance. The one I am looking for will have a heart for not only submission but also adventure. She will be someone that wants to grow and excel in not only the BDSM world, but also the vanilla one. I am a firm believer that you need balance between the two worlds and with the right environment these will in time seamlessly merge into one. One that is invisible to vanilla sector, but extremely powerful to those involved. With balance she will need to not only have a strong submissive side but also want to join me in taking life by the tail and shaking it.

A little about me, I have known of my Dominant side since I was an adolescent and was blessed with my first experience when I was 19 with an older sub. The concepts I learned when I was a “clean slate” have followed me through life. I used these concepts as the foundation to build upon over the years and as I learned and matured, these evolved as well. One of these concepts (which tend to get me in trouble with some in the community) is that it is not all about the Dom, but in fact about the sub/slave. It is up to the Master or Dominant to provide an environment that stimulates the sub’s submissive side. The sub/slave is like a musical instrument and the Dom a musician and it is up to him to create the music, and it is his skill that dictates the quality of that music. The same applies to a BDSM relationship; it is the Dom’s skill that dictates the quality of the relationship. He must be intuitive enough of his sub to be able to react to her needs, creating the proper scene or environment where her submissive needs are met and by doing so satisfying his own. It is truly a symbiotic relationship, for neither can thrive without the other. This concept is the foundation of my beliefs and how I lead my sub/slave on her journey.

However as I said before I dance to a little different drummer, and that is I tend to bring my vanilla world environment into my BDSM one. No judgment call here, but I tend to not wear black unless I am riding my Harley. I prefer my sub/slave to wear more feminine vanilla clothing which I think help merge the lines of the two worlds. An example, I had a sub one time that would always “leather up” before we met and I noticed that her demeanor totally changed. It was her armor, and I had a really hard time getting the results I wanted because she was this different person. I needed to get to the real person and once she had enough trust, we changed her attire and I found the real submissive. It was extremely powerful and she told me that she gained strength through her submission and now it was real which allowed her to bring this strength into her vanilla world. Before I get hate mail, let me say I love leather and it has its place….but as I preached at the beginning….balance.

I also believe that each person is different and I do not take the one size fits all approach. What I mean by this is simple, when I take on a sub/slave I learn who she is and what her goals are. I then adjust to her unique needs, so that I can stimulate and satisfy her submissive desires and in turn my own. As a musician, you would not play a trumpet the same way you would the flute would you? Of course not, the ultimate goal of creating music is the same, although adamantly they follow the same musical rules, the techniques used to create the music is very different.

Having discussed my views of BDSM, I would be out of balance if I did not give some insight into my vanilla side. :-) As can be seen from my photo’s I love the outdoors and adventure. These pictures were taken this year in Moab, UT, where I took a rental Jeep exploring the vast canyons of the area. I am also an experienced Scuba Diver and love the water. My love of water is continued on the surface where I adore sailing. I have a sailboat on the coast and many weekends are spent exploring the sound. Besides, sailboats lend themselves to all kinds of bondage opportunities as well as floggings on the high seas. :-) Now all this outside adventure does not mean that I do not enjoy inside activities as well. I love museums, art, cooking, photography, dancing (partner), and of course, action movies. ;-) I am a guy!!!! I am looking for a I am seeking a submissive that is healthy, fit and active and feels she would thrive in this environment. Being a good and caring Master I would even throw an occasional (rare) “chick flick”.

If you see yourself in these two worlds and think you can help me merge them into one please drop me a line. Someone once told me that I want my cake and eat it to, which I responded. “And your point would be?” Hope to hear from you soon and as a note I do have references who can give you valuable insight into who I am. I am disease free, so please be so too.

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dwezzle4u2000
 
 Age: 27
 Piqua, Ohio