What I'm looking for in a woman:
Twisted sexually (by normal standards), but with a good heart.
Someone with domestic skills
I'm emotionally able to handle an open or poly relationship (similar, but not the same thing), but am willing to negotiate an exclusive arrangement for the right woman and am able to respect it. I have found it thrilling to see 'my woman' fucked by another man (or woman for that matter), but I'm not a cuckold and it's not a requirement.
I am a real time experienced Dominant, who has and can 'move quickly' toward a scene, in fact I like it that way, but 'coffee' or a munch is a fine way to meet.
BDSM activities that I like:
Bondage - rope, cuffs, tape, cellophane.
Whips - floggers, single tail (signal whip)
Slapping - anywhere I am 'allowed'
Scening in 'public' - open dungeons, play parties, etc.
Also, I am open to exploring 'your' kinks as that's a big part of the fun for me.