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Seeking my Dominant Gentleman.
I believe in Truth, Respect and Honor. I believe in new beginnings withintense passion, soulmates and hand-holding best friends. Trust makes a strong foundation for any worthwhile relationship.
I have a submissive heart, and I'm an honest and trustworthy soul one who loves nature. I am drawn to a Gentleman Dom who's a good person and a competent Man.
I know that a Mans most powerful gifts are his God-given Mind, whispered words and his own 2-hands.
I'm seeking one Man who is Classy, Clean and Healthy.
Thanks for reading, smiles.
A SALUTE TO SEXY, OLDER MEN written by Ammishcha
Im writing this because I dont think these things get said enough. (And because, God knows, you guys are too tough and self-sufficient to ask for the affirmation you need!)
Its true, youre not as young as you used to be. Its tough for a man when he feels his strength and ability fading. There was a time, maybe, when you felt like you could hold your own against anybody. Now you have to face the fact that your body is starting to crap out on you. Its rough. Its hard not to get your ego tangled up in that.
But I have to tell you, I really like mature men. A lot of women do. So here are some of the reasons why
1) Your brain is bigger than your ego. Young men will set stuff on fire, jump off of bridges, dive off of cliffs, and do wheelies in vehicles never designed to pop just to pound their chests and show that theyre real men. You have arrived at the knowledge that you are a man, and that relaxed confidence is damned attractive.
2) Staying power. Its kind of a cliche, but its true. Giving a young man a blow job is sort of like the joke about Irish foreplay. (Whats an Irish mans idea of foreplay? Brace yourself, Bridget!) Youre basically trying to hang on, watch your teeth, and keep your ass in the saddle for the full eight seconds. Fellatio on an older man is a more sensual experience. Technique and style become important, and sex in general becomes more about the interactions between players than reaching that goal line. Hell, sometimes we dont even hit the goal line, and its still good!
3) Older men are more outwardly focused. Young guys are like, Holy FUCK! I have a COCK! Wanna see it!?! Older guys are like, Come here, sweetheart, and let me show you things... There is nothing more sexy than having a mans full and undivided attention, and you guys give it to us.
4) You look good. No, really- you do. I think the term Silver fox is demeaning, but lets face it, you guys age well. With women, our skin starts to thin so early that by the time we hit eighty, were basically a cellulite-coated skeleton covered in a translucent membrane. But with a little bit of care, you guys look good practically forever.
I see a lot of men in their seventies at the YMCA and I cant believe how good they look. Theyre still strong, trim, have good skin... I also love the way older men have real faces. I love the way your bone structure shows through, the creases of laugh lines around your eyes, the strength and callouses on your hands from a lifetime of work... hair, no hair, hair in weird places, it doesnt matter. Youre still attractive. You may not see it in the bathroom mirror, but we see it when youre sitting across the table laughing and flirting with us.
5) As a corollary to 4, youre NOT physically perfect. Which can be a relief. Being with an older guy, one whos built up some wear and tear and is maybe carrying extra cargo around the equator himself, I dont feel as self-conscious about my physical flaws. When Im more relaxed, I feel sexier. Its hard to cut loose and have multiple screaming orgasms when youre trying to keep your tummy sucked in.
6) Power. Power can be different things to different people. It can mean strength, money, position, authority, knowledge, discipline or self-control. Some really focused young men have this, but the vast majority of the time it accumulates with age. In my opinion, whether hes dominant or submissive, there is nothing more attractive than a powerful man.
7) Wisdom. Another cliche, but if you recognize that wisdom is basically the accumulated knowledge and self-control that enables you not to fuck shit up, this? Is a very good thing.
8) You have skills. Somehow, during the years between eighteen and your present age, you have learned a few things. About women. About men. About life. About yourself. Hell, youve learned a few things about plumbing, computers, bondage, taxes, cunnilingus, credit reports, cancer, dog whips, corset-lacing and car repairs! Men are, at heart, problem solvers. Older men have more tools in their toolbox for solving the problems that life throws at us all. You have a lot to offer in a relationship, and relationships are often more important to women than a taut body and endless sexual appetite.
I know some folks are going to hoot and holler at this. There are many people out there, male or female, gay or straight, who are young themselves or who are seriously looking for a young man to hook up with. And I certainly mean no disrespect to the younger generation of guys just getting started exploring themselves and what this lifestyle has to offer them.
So before you get your drawers in a knot, let me take a minute to point out the fact that, if youre smart and lucky, every one of you hot, young, baby-faced studs out there has the potential to eventually acquire all the characteristics Ive listed. (And to let you know that sex appeal doesnt end at thirty-five. Trust me, this is a good thing youll see when you get there.)
And finally, I want to tip my hat and send a saucy wink to all the great older guys on Fet who have already arrived!
(for AquariusRising, with love and air kisses)
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Ive loved reading all the comments. And for any of you guys who are still suffering from self-esteem issues after reading my piece, I really recommend reading over the comments! There are tons of women out there who are ready to love and accept you exactly the way you are. So many amazing women out there willing to look beyond the surface and find a great man to partner with.
I wish I could say the same in reverse. Ive had several comments and messages from men who seem to think theyre automatically entitled to chase hot young women. Which seems to read perfect little hot-bodied beach bunnies fresh out of college. Im not saying it doesnt work, or cant work, or shouldnt work.
All Im saying is this to the ONE guy who wrote back and said he loved a more-seasoned, mature woman, too... you Sir, are my hero. Thank you.
written by Ammischa
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~The Olive Tree~
A confused sub came before a wise Master who adored her. She felt that to submit to Him would mean she would open her heart to unbearable pain should He ever leave her. She hungered for Him and needed Him, but was ready to walk away in a panic. The gentle Master knelt her before Him and started a tale of love and devotion. As she looked up at Him His arms began to widen and open like a large tree stretches its branches to the sky. At that moment the Master appeared rooted to the floor and His impressive size towered above her like a giant tree. Then He began to speak........
I'm here for you, now and always no matter how far time and space takes us. Whether you walk away from Me today or you stay and serve Me I will not turn from you. I am as patient as time itself. I will take not from you unless you give freely and completely of yourself. But I give onto you regardless, for My love is unconditional. Like the olive tree that can both feed you and shade you I am there seemingly eternal to your short life on this earth. If you need My fruit to feed your hunger I will give you all the fruit you need. If your skin grows dry and loses its luster, the oil from My fruit will restore it and make it glisten. When you need comfort My leaves will gently caress your face with the slightest breeze. When you need discipline My branches will correct you when the wind blows strong. If you just need My shade to protect you from the sun, My branches will shade and protect you. If you need warmth at night My fallen branches will fuel the fire to keep you warm and safe. If you need a refreshing breeze My leaves will fan and cool you. You are My gardener. When you submit to Me you tend that which keeps Me vibrant and full of life. When you kneel under Me and till the soil you give breath to My roots. When you water Me, My sap flows strong through Me and raises My limping branches. When you soil yourself collecting fertilizer with your bare hands you strengthen Me and humble Me with your devotion. Although My life will go on, life would not be the same without you. Your dedication and unconditional care for Me keeps Me vibrant and nutures My very core. The sustenance and protection I give you seems little reward for your servitude. Still the gardener serves the tree from her heart and the tree gives to her heart all that He can! I am planted firmly on the ground and cannot follow you if you walk away from Me. But be assured I will survive. One hundred years later and two of your lifetimes I will still be there waiting for you in the same spot to offer you all that I do now. Stay with Me and be My gardener. You cannot get lost in Me for we are complemetary to each other. I am your devotion, and you give meaning to My existence. Apart we live life and survive, together we bloom eternally! As the Master finished His last words the sub cried herself to sleep at His feet. That night He stood planted there like 'The Olive Tree' offering her His unconditional love and protection as she would tend to Him with her devotion the next day and everyday thereafter.
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