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We are a Poly couple, he is a dominant, and she is his slave.. We are looking for an individual that enjoys power play, pain, sex and service. We are and age divergent couple, he is 49 she is 31. He is a mental health specialist, she is a student. He is a dominant sadist, she is a switch sadist and little.

We are hoping to find someone to serve him, and who may or may not be play with her. we would like someone whois intelligent, well rounded, and enjoys power play and day to day life as well. We live in the san Francisco bay area, and want to verify by skype after 3 or 4 messages as there are many flakes out there.



1 Expectations from the dominant will be initially in writing. Limits for the sub will be in writing. Anything the sub does not specifically set as a hard limit is open for play.



2. The sub will be available to spend at least two weekends a month with the dominant. She will be available for play with the dominant, or the dominant and his partners.



3. The sub may or may not develop a emotional attachment to the dominant. This may or may not be reciprocated. Emotions will not interfere with the necessity of meeting the expectations set for the sub.



4. The sub will wear a token of ownership at all times.



5. If other dominants attempt to take the sub away from the dominant, she will put them in touch with the dominant so that he may deal with the issue. She is to then block those individuals if told to by the dominant.

6. Sub will meet with dominant within 4 emails to verify existence.






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5/29/2017 8:21:43 PM
I find it interesting how many submissives run out of money for gas, so when offered a train ticket, decline. It's why I won't send cash to anyone. 

5/22/2017 5:29:28 PM
Has any one else noticed that slaves and submissive disappear when it becomes time to verify them over video? interesting isn't it?

5/21/2017 7:01:25 PM
I would like to advise everyone that "sweetfirefly4family is a raving lunatic. Avoid at all costs. She is apparently unable to understand basic poly family dynamics differ for everyone. I hope she grows up.

5/21/2017 11:31:39 AM
I have talked with several subs and slaves, and I find it sad that when they decide someone is not for them, they feel the need to then block that person because the norm is that they then get a lot of abuse from that person. Its just very sad.

5/15/2017 6:59:50 PM
One of the things that has fascinated me is the number of slaves that expect to be kept in a cage, or kneeling at home. Individuals that are part of a household need to participate in the upkeep of the household. I earn the primary amount of money necessary to keep the household running. I expect each of my slaves to contribute, whether they are a lawyer, or a cam girl, work in porn, an escort or a student, they are not to be sitting at home doing nothing while I am at work. I could not lock a slave in a cage while I went to work as she would have no way to escape should an electrical fire start. having her busy and serving as a little money earner is preferable to certain death in a fire.

3/26/2017 8:55:17 AM
Kate, sorry you erased your profile. My kik is Middleagedmaster76 .

3/25/2017 7:09:44 PM
Talking with the most unlikely people here. 

11/27/2016 12:38:17 PM
I would like to strongly advocate that slaves and submissives, when not interested when you have been exchanging messages have the courtesy to politely decline further contact. If not harm has been given to you and the individual you have been speaking with is polite, this is just courtesy of a minimal level. 

11/20/2016 9:27:44 PM
There is not a lot one can do if when written to, you reply and get no response. 

11/5/2016 9:13:07 PM
I have decided it is time to start making rattan canes again.

9/3/2016 2:38:36 PM
So in my boredom, I have been considering how to use ice cream as a torture. And what safety measures need to be taken, thoughts anyone?

8/14/2016 9:15:36 PM
Its ever so fascinating when one is blocked by an individual when no harm, foul or even an unkind word were spoken. Very strange..

7/9/2016 10:17:14 PM
Its been a long time since I wrote here. Things have mellowed out, we have all been together for 7 years now, and have a comfortable d/s relationship. I am looking forward to working with someone new, who I can mold to play with both myself and my girl Kristine. I am looking for a girl that like her, looks a bit younger. I hope to find someone fun to meet and see if she might fit in with our little family. Both girls here now have other lovers which is nice as they get out and about. I am content but need someone to enjoy this with us.

9/21/2013 11:19:52 PM
In sf for a while. Coffee anyone?

10/16/2011 10:12:04 AM

I am not really sure I understand all of the pictures of the dominant women flashing all the flesh. The very dominant women the I know in real life tend to have thier slaves flashing, not  themselves. It almost seems as if many of the very younger dommes are attempting to entice with thier naked flesh, not thier dominant personalities, which is the real attraction for a truly submissive person. I should know. I am a not a beautiful man, dominant yes, but beautiful no. I suppose the old saying that women love a man for who he is, not what he looks like. Can the same be said for how male slaves react to female dominants, or do the slaves need to be cajoled and taunted with flesh?

 


10/15/2011 2:42:59 PM

Ann we would still like to know how you and Kari are....please let us know.

J and k


8/6/2011 1:11:25 PM

It amazes me each time I read a profile that says something like; 'how can guys think they can start out treating you like shit, before you even submit, and think you will submit to them." This seems to imply that the slave is expecting to be treated like shit after they give themselves to the master. As the owner of two slaves, I find them to be precious posessions. If I treat them "like shit' they will be less able to serve me, and less willing. How much stronger will thier desire to serve me if they are treated with love and respect.


4/11/2011 12:47:09 PM

We do not accept friendship requests without first having talked to people and determined we want them as friends.


2/3/2011 12:49:56 PM

Things are pretty quiet around our house, kristine is back in school, jackie is volunteering. I am sitting quietly in the bed, doing my rehab exercises and studying spanish. kind of boring for a guy who lives with to lovely slaves. Not really able to do scenes with the girls, just being myself, master.


1/3/2011 9:22:59 AM

For the information of anyone who writes to this profile. Starting off by saying things like :"I usually dont make comments to emptyheaded worthless bitchs" will get you blocked. Regardless of if what follows is complimentary or not. This is the profile for my family group. Neither girl should be addressed in any way demeaning, and to address another dominant in that way is simply disrespectful and sad.


1/2/2011 1:00:20 AM

So I am online quite  bit these days as I have a broken leg, having been hit by a car on the motorcycle last month. I will be bedridden for the most part for the next 3 months. I look forward to talking to anyone who wants to chat.

John owner of kristine and jackie


11/5/2010 9:06:42 PM

Wow, once again a little sub boy writes to us, is a bit snotty then blocks a response. And they wonder why they are all alone....way to go slavetoserveyou your just the coolest little twit around.


9/5/2010 12:56:06 PM



So a sub named

jzustme  sent us the following note: "wow, may i please join You both?"
My response was "No"

His response to this was: "fuck off...learn some manners."
 
Now, as he is a sub, addressing a dominant, as our profile is for a dominant and two slaves, it seems that he is the one with poor manners, and a bit of a coward as well, as he promptly blocked any answer that might be given to him. I had planned to send him a message letting him know he needs to read profiles rather than looking at the pictures, and to respect when a slave or slaves are owned, and address the owner of the profile, not the slaves, as that is simple courtesy. But I am not getting to educate him due to his cowardice. To all out there who run into him, i advise you to avoid him as he is a coward who makes ugly statments, then blocks responses and runs away.

8/13/2010 5:42:57 PM
Still curious if Ann and Keri are alright, Please let us know.

4/27/2010 3:54:01 PM
so once again, idiots abound on the internet. big surprise. The lates fool sent us this charming note when he could not get what he wanted..."maybe you are a fake like others say".
I would love to know what "others" he is talking about, and how he can judge another to be a fake just because they find him annoying...
the low level of maturity is amazing.

....oh and he blocked a response when he did it. Seriously thinking about writing the names of these fools up...

4/15/2010 7:57:10 AM
We do not accept friend requests from people we have not corresponded with.

3/7/2010 9:13:02 AM
We do not accept friendship requests from people who just ask, don't make an attempt to be conversational, and interesting.

1/6/2010 7:50:13 AM
Its amazing to me that someone would contact us, and be surprised that the male dominant would be responding to thier message. And then make sarcastic comments about "yet another male with a couples profile." Why would someone contact a submissive who is obviously owned and hit on them...its just disrespectful and shows poor character.

10/10/2009 4:57:24 PM
So what we have now found is that if slaves are not able to follow the most basic directions. In addition to not being able to verify by cam. Its good to learn...

9/28/2009 11:26:45 PM
Ann we would very much like to be back in touch with the two of you. We hope you are well. Please contact us.

9/11/2009 7:03:43 AM
We will not add random friends. We must have spoken with you and consider you a friend. If you simply send us a friend request it will be denied, because you are not in fact a friend. Look up the definition of friend.

9/8/2009 7:11:32 PM
One of the more curious incidents recently has been the "dommes" approaching us to see if we will top the slave that they can't top anymore because they are moving away. Funny the slave always seems to have the same screen name.. and he keeps trying to do it to the same people using different "domme" names...jeusus, at least be creative and create new screen names.
otherwise, things are great, sitll talking with people we are interested in. hoping to do visits soon.

9/7/2009 8:39:48 AM
It has been going really well for us on here recently. It has been great to meet the new people we are talking with, and as always will be nice to get to learn who follows through and who doesnt. Had a submissive say to me the other day "are you blowing me off?" It struck me that maybe dominants are not always straight forward with subs about thier intentions. We have always maintained that if we feel things don't work out, we will be straightforward and let them know it.
We are coming up on meeting the people we are talking with, and are very excited as they are able to come and do a small trial. Hopefully our little family will grow and be happy.

8/31/2009 6:46:34 AM

It is really fun to talk to all of the new people we have met recently. Thank you everyone who has been willing to verify that they are real. We are confident now that we will find the person who will fit in best with our house now. Thanks again for all who make regular contact.


8/23/2009 9:10:27 AM
I find it depressing, now that CM is allowing is allowing explicit content, how many pictures are stolen from porn sites. It is pretty obvious which ones are stolen, as the pictures are generally just a little too perfectly lighted. Oh and of coures when you can see where the website name has been erased....just a tad obvious.

8/19/2009 9:16:56 PM
We hope to reconnect in time with Anna. Please contact us if you are still online here as we miss you two.

6/29/2009 7:02:22 AM
  

   Once again, an immature person has contact us, been insulting, and then immediately blocked us so that they cannot receive a response. It reminds me of a child, who runs up to another, calls them a name then runs away and hides behind a parent.
    I have to say, my immediate impulse was to say.”I am rubber and you are glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you" based on the content and way they write.
   Grow up. If you claim to be a Domme, or Dom, be respectful of others. Treat them as you would wish to be treated. Insults simply show how insecure you are, and blocking someone after you have written to them shows you as a coward and a fool.


5/31/2009 7:54:27 AM

One thing I fail to understand is people using pictures of celebrities as their profile picture, and expecting no one to notice. Are people that unhappy with themselves?


5/19/2009 12:10:16 AM
we are in our new home in Ventura. It is wonderful. We continue to look for the right girl to serve us. It is somewhat disappointing when a girl simply stops talking or drops out with out even the courtesy to say goodbye. But this is the internet, so I shouldn't be surprised.
Otherwise, excited to start work on Wed. Kristine is already talking with people and has friends who are helping her. Stephan and Charlotte are amazing. He is a very talented photographer.

5/9/2009 2:01:01 PM
kristine's new shoot is up on kink. It is beautiful, I am such a lucky man.

5/8/2009 12:00:07 AM
So it is final, we have a new place in ventura Ca, and are moving there on friday the 15th. wow life can move fast some times.
Cant wait to have the girl join us.

5/4/2009 5:33:56 PM
So its final, we are moving to La. And things are going well with the girl. She is wonderful. things seem to be going well...

4/18/2009 9:32:45 PM

This kinda sucks, but due to tight job market, we might end up moving to LA. At this point we move to the first job offered... but, at least there are jobs...


4/15/2009 6:28:17 AM

We have met a pretty cool woman online. She is very attractive, and follows directions well. She seems to meet our needs, and we are looking forward to getting to meet her in real time. It would be nice if everything worked out as well as with the boys we have met.


3/23/2009 8:01:47 PM
It is important to us that we meet people who are real, and willing to verify that they are will. If you start to talk to us, and are going to discontinue your  account, it would be really appriciated if we are notifies. I am sure that other dominants in the same positon prefer to be notified if someone is not interested rather than they just disappear. Not wanting to be with somone is fine, honesty shows character. We will recipricate.

3/14/2009 8:14:12 PM
To whomever sent us the message.."bananas" and then blocked us... I say to you...."splits" and that you must be awfully bored.

3/9/2009 11:00:27 AM
We continue to have a really good time here in San Francisco. Saturday was kristine's birthday, and we went to dinner with 25 friends. Afterwards everyone went to the local dungeon for birthday spankings. The next day she was off for a week of shooting in the snow with kink.com. All told a pretty good weekend.  Her nerve damage resolved itself. Everyone who does bondage should be aware of how easy it is to damage the radial nerve and cause wrist drop.

2/18/2009 6:19:54 PM

I am continually amazed at how wonderful some of the people we have met on here are. It is nice to meet people who are not fully focussed on the sexual, and are real, willing to meet for dinner or coffee. It is nice to sit and talk with a boy about what he does in life and be able to talk about how he can serve. I appricate meeting all of you and hope to continue our friendships and interactions.


1/22/2009 11:31:30 PM

I havent written in a bit. We have been busy. Kristine is recoperating from a nerve pinch during a horizontal suspension. It is a pretty common injury when the slave struggles a lot, and the rope slips down a bit hitting a nevrve and pinching it. The domme who suspender her got distracted, trying to force her to orgasm, or in any way submit. (she gets bratty with tops other than me, and especially this girl who topped her...as they are a good matched pair). Kristine's professional life is blossoming, she had a live shoot for device bondage, and has upcoming shoots for pissing.com, hogtied, hardtied, and infernal restraints.  Life is pretty good right now.
We are continuing our search for a female submissive as a play partner. 


12/24/2008 4:07:12 PM
Wow, Just recieved a really nasty message from a cowardly scum who, when i read the message, had was so afraid of response that they deleted the account right after sending the message. Why anyone would send a hateful message to someone they dont know, and have never spoken to puzzles me. Its to bad that they have such low self esteem they need to attack others to raise thier pitiful self confidence.
Merry Christmas to all who celebrate it, I hope you have a wonderful holiday and a happy New Year to all.

12/17/2008 9:21:04 AM
I would like to urge people with empty profiles to at least put "not looking for anything at this time" in them if they are just here to look around or maybe "here for the forums" It would make life less frustrating, and isnt that much to ask.


12/15/2008 12:49:01 PM

Last night was one of the most intense scenes I have done with kristine. Never before have we played when she was not in a submissive state. We negotiated beforehand and she was aware of her safewords. Her screaming drove away 3 other couples on the other side of the cross. She begged me to stop, cursed and struggled. (vet wrap binding her arms and lower legs to the cross me safe from her kicking) I used canes, paddles, dragons tail and a single tail on her. truly a fun session. we stopped a bit after the tail started breaking her skin.
It was definitely a cathartic and wonderful scene. It was purely about pain, and giving pain. Which was a bit strange as it was distinclty seperated from the emotions which characterize our play.


12/8/2008 7:08:17 PM

My only request for those who are choosing to harrass is that you not be repetative, so you are at least amusing...


12/3/2008 7:03:43 AM

We just got our..oh 10000th contact from someone who claims to be a male dominant (ok, just seems like it), asking for "cam or chat info". It is so boring. How many people out there just hit, paste send when they look at the pictures, without regard to what is actually written in the profile. I thought we made it pretty clear what we are looking for. I dont mind being contacted by dom's for chat and friendship, but when the contact is clearly directed at the female in the couple for cam purposes...its just gets repetative.


11/25/2008 1:51:34 AM
Kristine completed her Training of O shoot for Kink. It was a good experience for her. She was drilled in some excellent skills, and pushed herself to meet the goals set forth in the training. I am looking forward to seeing the finished product.

11/19/2008 10:00:20 PM

I posted for the first time here and found that only about 2 in 10 of the individuals who replied actually responded to the question posed. I was attacked, and belittled for the question. My ability as a dom was questioned. I was called a liar, and pimp.
It is a shame that in an environment where there should be understanding and acceptance, that so many individuals feel the need to attack others.


11/13/2008 10:21:29 AM

Kristine is getting to shoot for Kink's The Training of O. I am busy making a list of things she can work on during the shoot.


11/12/2008 3:11:45 AM
So I dont quite understand why a submissive would take the time to set up an appointment to talk with a dominant, and then not be present for that appointment. Particularly if that appointment was simply in the form of being online at a specific time.

10/18/2008 5:43:33 PM

People continue to amaze me. Why would a dom read a couples profile, compliment it, then ask if the owned female submissive would like to talk without first asking for permission from the owner?


10/13/2008 6:59:30 PM
I have to say, it is inane to me that an individual would talk to another, then block them. It is childish and sad that they are not able to keep up a civil discourse without feeling the need to attack, albit in a passive aggressive way, then run away and block the respondent. Especially if there has been no previous conflict. Very sad that this is the state of conversation on collar me.

10/4/2008 7:48:58 PM
My girl and I had a wonderful time at the folsom street fair. She got suspended from a walk/dont walk sign on the sidewalk by Mike West. Really fun for her since she is a total rope slut. We attended Folsom Fringe, and met new friends and attended great workshops in ageplay, single tailing, waxplay, bloodplay and bondage. The dungeon parties were amazing, huge dungeon, My girl had an inverted suspension done by Lew, and I then tortured her with the violet wand. She continues to have fun filming fetish video's, and my work is going well. We are hoping to get to play with our puppy some more soon, he has been really busy,  and to find a nice girl who likes us and playing with puppies.

9/6/2008 8:56:33 AM
I find that often I will talk with an owned submissive, and there appears to be an assumption that it is not possible for a dom or domme to speak with them without attempting to "steal" them. Once I have learned that a submissive is owned, I contact the domminant of that submissive, although sometimes it takes research to determine who the dom is, as it is not always stated in thier profile, or even if they are asked.
My girl and I enjoy meeting others, and advocate individuals, dom or sub gaining information. We are always comfortable referring others to sources of information.
It is kind of sad that any attempt at being friendly is assumed to be a come on.  I know that when others contact us attempting to talk to my slave, I discuss with them thier intentions before allowing them to talk with her or not. Isolating slaves from contact is the measure of an insecure master.

8/30/2008 5:21:42 PM

So having a puppy is the most fun. Having him chase toys and learn to sit. He is the best puppy one could hope for. Very affectionate, minds well, and a lovely masochist. My girl loves her puppy and looks forward to getting to dress him up..


8/19/2008 8:51:22 PM
I find it very amusing that a submissive would contact a dominant who they have had no previous contact with, make what a very excellent suggestion, then ruin it with a "duh" and then block the dominant from responding. it is that sort of interaction that makes it difficult to interact openly with others. Why even make the comment if your going to be block the response. Feels very much like grammar school.

8/17/2008 10:21:14 PM
So what I have discovered on this site is that there are many males on this site that wish to be sumissive to females. A given I know. These males dont even have the sense to read the profile, which clearly states that we are not looking for males at this time. Yes I know the pictures of the girl are attractive, but if your going to go through the trouble of contacting someone, at least have the courtesy and good sense to read the profile.

8/10/2008 1:09:03 AM
So we went to rope burn tonight. It was beautiful, girls suspended and tortured. They were lovely. It was fun as it ended with my girl on her knees licking other girls. A small lesbian orgy ensued. How much fun for one night can you have..:)

8/3/2008 8:50:01 AM

Last night we went to the citadel, katy had a lesson in CBT and it was fun to watch her gleefuly torture the boy's cock. He was wonderful in his restraint and submission, and katy and her teacher brought him to the edge of orgasm, and held him there for a long time.
Afterwards we had a great session topping a switch, with flogging, rubber bands, caning, pussy licking. A great time. Her nipples were so sensative and responsive to the cane... a Great evening. We are looking forward to more play.


7/26/2008 1:19:38 PM
So it continues, Male submissives who do not read the profile. I explained, quite clearly I though, in Big Red letters at the top of the profile, that we are no longer accepting male applicants. We have been fortunate to find the males we are searching for. It especially frustrates me when it is apparent that they did not even bother to read the profile.Now we are looking for that special female sub who wishes to make friends and play. Thank you to all of you who have spoken to us who took the time to read the profile. We hope you will stay in contact.

7/24/2008 7:41:30 PM
we have been very fortunate to have several excellent boys contact us to play. We are in contact with several promising girls as well. we are no longer accepting offers from boys to be in service, however, we are still accepting friendship and of course contact by girls and women. we are also looking for friends and contacts with other dominant couples in our area.

7/21/2008 10:42:46 AM

I am pleased that so many male submissives are eager to assist with katy's training as a domme. I am pleased that we have been able to arrange to meet. Thank you to those of you who have contacted us. We are still searching for that right girl as well.


6/30/2008 5:11:42 PM
It is always so nice to hear from old friends. Just got in contact with a slave we had talked to in the past who dropped off the face of the earth. we are glad that she is safe.

6/14/2008 8:50:42 AM
I have been looking over the profiles on the site, and I have noticed that the focus of the slaves and the subs in thier journals seems to be what the domminants will do to them. I often read "tell me what you will do to me". I wonder how some will react when they are the ones who must serve and not "have things done" to them.

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 Age: 34
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