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thedormouse
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snewbie21
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OPENING: Hi, I am pleased you are reading this, it shows dedication and intelligence, both are qualities I hold in high regard. My name Andrew, nice to meet you.
MY PICTURES: I only have this picture up due to privacy concerns but have many available upon request.
MY APPEARANCE: I live in Duluth, Minnesota; I am drug, disease, tobacco, alcohol, and caffeine free but you do not have to be; I stand about six feet, two inches, (188 cm) tall and weigh an athletic 175 pounds (79 Kg). My hair is blond and my eyes are blue. I have no children and have never been married but look forward to changing that. I am legally blind and suffer from depression but I try not to let them stop me from living a full life; my inbox is open to all questions, so feel free to ask whatever you might be wondering.
MY PERSONALITY: Tests identify me as an "INFJ-T" there is a free personality test on 16personalities.com if you want to take it. I am a fairly well-educated accountant who maintains a healthy connection to my family and community while keeping some aspects of my life private. In my spare time I study, (as is required to maintain employment as an accountant) exercise, rock-climb, practice the martial arts, watch tv, read, watch almost any type of movies, and misuse the awesome power of my computer for personal gain and petty entertainment. I'm a big fan of horror, fantasy, sci-fi, and comedy, but am not limited to only those. People say I patient and goal-oriented and I think that helps in this lifestyle, specifically in the beginning where I prefer getting to know a person before anything too serious happens. I tend to take things slow in the beginning, many questions and answers and eventually leading into a meeting. I'm open to almost any sort of new experience and don't mind taking a few steps in the wrong direction just to make sure it really is wrong for me; meaning if you want to try something, chances are I'm game, at least for a few tentative tries. I'm not a very talkative person, but I'll do my best to let you know what's on my mind and won't lose my temper easily, so be yourself and enjoy your stay. The last thing I should mention here is that I am a friendly person, so if you write, I'll reply because that's the kind of person I am and I expect the same from you.
MY HISTORY: When I was young, I knew something was different about me and how I viewed love and sexuality. I have never been abused, emotionally, sexually, or physically and will not hold it against my partner if that is in her background. The first few exposures I've had to the lifestyle came in the form of movies, not dirty movies, just movies that used such occurrences as comedic situations. Years later, on the wonderful internet, I came across information sources like this one which lead me to my first few real-life encounters. My years in the scene started me off at a very young age. Those experiences, while usually unsatisfying, taught me a great deal. Eventually I met a nice top who was interested in exploring her sub side, after several years we parted ways; we still keep in touch, as is my preference with almost everyone I share so much with. It is not my intention to earn points, get a nice tally going, or break a record for number of partners (but it does sound tempting now that I think about it, but that is not my primary concern here) I am looking for people who are willing to try new things, expand their horizons, and be pushed firmly but fairly.
RELATIONSHIPS: I consider myself thoughtful, genuine, creative, safe, sane, and nice guy; I am not a bully, I am not a monster, I am just a nice guy who is looking for a nice girl interested in an alternative type of relationship, particularly one with an open understanding of control dynamics, ideally 24/7 total power exchange. I am not saying I plan to keep you in my basement and use you for sex and nothing else, (if that is what you want, we can talk) but that is not what you would be forced into. Think of it like a traditional old-fashioned relationship, you follow my lead, you can have a vote, but I have ten, you can have an opinion, and thoughts and speak your mind, but I decide what happens and what you do. We can still do fun things, and I plan to, I just want a relationship without all the petty power struggles and sniping that seems to happen in other relationships; look at the business world or the armed forces, they all have clearly defined ranks because infighting can destroy even the best group of people. I do plan to whip you when you misbehave, or when I feel like it, but I will also consider your opinion. I'm very interested in trying new things, starting with the more mundane and moving to the extreme. Also the activities requiring larger apprentices like stocks and the like hold a great deal of my imagination. I'm open to almost any safe, sane, and consensual ideas, given enough time to prepare myself mentally and do adequate safety research. Please note: although I mention it in this profile, willingness to participate in a polyamorous relationship is by no means a requirement or even a strong recommendation. It is a nice idea, but nothing I am hurried to experience, if ever. If what I've described sounds interesting, let me know.
YOU: Before I begin this part, lets get one thing straight, if you could only have one value, I'd want you to have honesty. Yes, I've been burned, and that's why I emphasize honesty. I want a partner or two with which to have fun in anything from casual to serious and long term relationships, but my interests tend towards long term or life partner relationships; prior experience is not a requirement nor are any specific physical attributes. These are a few non-physical attributes you should have or be willing to gain, order is based on importance: Honesty, kindness, warmth, self-awareness, openness, a good sense of humor, and an interest in their health including mental, physical, emotional, and psychological. When you write be sure and tell me your age, location, basic physical deion, and what you expect in a relationship if you are comfortable telling me and they aren't already in your profile. I look forward to hearing from you.
SAFETY: I have first aid training, several years experience with this, and have had partners with various complications, so you can expect me to be safety conscious and able to adapt to any special circumstances you may have. If you would like your desires kept private, that is also doable, I too am a private person, so that is not a problem, even if we choose to publish our exploits, masks are great for that. Safewords/safegestures and other safety precautions are strongly encouraged, especially in initial meetings, but are not required if you to them strongly.
CLOSING: If that sounds interesting, let me know and we can talk. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Best wishes, Andrew
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I'm back on the hunt and hope to find someone great soon. |
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I will be gone for some time, if you write to me I will reply but not for a month or so. It is possible I won't be back as I am having a medical procedure so don't take it personally if I never reply, I'll update this when I am back. |
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It's good to see the site is back up and running and the profiles are still here. |
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OK, I have completed my education and have a job, my next goal is to get a submissive/slavegirl are you interested in this position? Submit your resume right away to ensure availability. |
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I suppose I should comment on law school since I've been here since August, it's very painful and not in the good painful way. That's why I haven't been adding much, busy, busy, busy. But the semester break gave me some time and I've promised to spend more time at sites like this. |
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Hurray, now I have a good-length profile, but it's a copy of my profile on the other kink-related personals sites. I've also taken a personality test and here is the answer sheet:
EXTRAVERSION..............13
..Friendliness............17
..Gregariousness..........20
..Assertiveness...........35
..Activity Level..........39
..Excitement-Seeking......17
..Cheerfulness............06
AGREEABLENESS.............48
..Trust...................38
..Morality................51
..Altruism................26
..Cooperation.............59
..Modesty.................49
..Sympathy................70
CONSCIENTIOUSNESS.........76
..Self-Efficacy...........60
..Orderliness.............65
..Dutifulness.............43
..Achievement-Striving....48
..Self-Discipline.........85
..Cautiousness............92
NEUROTICISM...............04
..Anxiety.................20
..Anger...................01
..Depression..............34
..Self-Consciousness......25
..Immoderation............00
..Vulnerability...........06
OPENNESS TO EXPERIENCE....19
..Imagination.............31
..Artistic Interests......15
..Emotionality............00
..Adventurousness.........29
..Intellect...............37
..Liberalism..............77
I think it's fairly accurate, some parts more than others. I don't detest art, as it may appear, I just don't find myself drawn to it the way others my age are; that includes music. I'd encourage you to take one too, it's enjoyable once you get past the length. (No snickering) |
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| Age: 22 |
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