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Pakrat

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I identify as a heterosexual, cis male, and use hehim pronouns. I orient as polyamorous, Dominant, top, sensualist, sadist, and sensual sadist. I am an atheist and my spirituality is To thine own self be true. I am a realist who sees the glass being twice as large as it needs to be. I believe in honesty, loyalty, and communication. I have a laid back personality, I smile at strange dogs, and my favorite colors are black and purple. I like to think of myself as creative, intelligent, imaginative, clever, and humorous.

I adore the educational aspect of BDSM teaching, training, and mentoring. I like attending events and parties, meeting new people and potential playmates. I enjoy playing at public events and experiencing the energy of those around me, but I prefer private play for a deeper level of intimacy. My play often involves restraints, sensationdeprivation, power exchange, impact, mind fuck, predicament, consensual non-consent, and energy flow. I like to play as a Dom and a top, but am at my best when I can combine the two. I am comfortable playing in a wide range of levels, from beginner to advanced, light to heavy. I enjoy a variety of toys (floggers, single-tails, clips, weights, ropes, vibrators, cuffs, collars, paddles, canes, suckers, gags, blindfolds, and electricity), but my favorite toy is an eager girl. I do not have many hard limits, but I absolutely will not do piss, scat, or conservative politics.

I find BDSM to be empowering, spiritual, cathartic, and therapeutic. I believe that communication is the cornerstone of any relationship, most especially in a relationship involving a Ds dynamic. I also find that communication fails without openness and honesty, and a person unable or unwilling to commit to these things has no business being in a relationship, kinky or vanilla. I believe that submission is a gift to be offered rather than a prize to be taken. I dislike having to punish for bad behavior, far preferring to punish for enjoyment. I believe it takes two complete people to make a proper Ds pairing, each approaching the relationship as equals, else there is nothing to be gained by an exchange of power. I reject entirely that there is only one way to do anything, that a real submissive must do this, or, a true Dominant would never do that. I believe that every leash has two ends and that the relationship between a Dominant and submissive is a two-way responsibility. I do not believe that a Dominant must be an ass, or that being a Dominant somehow excuses one from being a decent person. I believe that consent distinguishes play from abuse. I have come to reject the concept of SSC (safe, sane and consensual) in favor of RACK (risk-aware, consensual kink) due to the largely subjective natures of safe and sane. I find that BDSM is much like playing extreme sports, wherein you must be aware of the potential dangers and protect yourselves as best you can if you wish to play.

I prefer female-identified playmates, and am not attracted to particularly masculine features. I adore breasts and visible hip bones. I have a strong sense of smell and prefer my playmates to smell nice without perfume (think deodorant and hair products). I prefer intelligent girls capable of making their own decisions and ing their own opinions, as I find the power exchange dynamic works best when entered into by equals. I like girls with positive self images, as I want my playmates to be proud of the gift they offer me. I prefer that submission comes to my playmates as naturally as my dominance comes to me--a genuine desire to serve. Girls who identify as bratty or sassy, or say things like, If he cant handle me, Ill walk all over him, are likely not a good fit. I have no desire to play with anyone under the influence of drugs, alcohol, or cigarettes, as I prefer my playmates not split their submission between me and an addiction. I have no use for dishonesty, clinginess, flakes, needless drama, or--most especially--an inability or unwillingness to communicate.

If any of this resonates with you, Id love to hear from you!

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9/24/2013 6:36:07 PM

Fuck's sake, this has to be the most transphobic thing I've seen all month...

"Biological women only, that means you were born with a clit instead of a dick, this is for the silly men that don't get it when one says female only."  --MissFMorgan


6/6/2013 2:03:45 PM

Ya know, nothing says "classy and experienced" quite like an 18-year-old with duck lips flipping off a camera.


4/21/2013 5:35:14 PM

This one even used a font that was both funky and fresh! "I ME MYSELF THE STUPID FUCKN KUNTT WHO IS THE NUMBER ONE FUCKN DRIVER GAVE THE FUCK UP DONE OVER GOOD RIDDANCE FUCKN OVER IT ALL FUCK ALL OF IT DONT NEED BS. TOMARRO I WILL LIKE C0FFEE I WILL BUT TODAY CONSUME SALUTAE  AND IN HER HONOR I HOLD THE CAN AS HIGH AS I CAN, TAKE TWO SIPS BURP LIKE IT WOULD RATTLE A STATE AND FINISH IT"


7/7/2012 11:58:07 AM

Okay, one more: "I AM CURRENTLY SEARCHING FOR 2 SLAVES AT THIS CURRENT TIME WITH MORE TO COME WHEN THE TIME COMES."


7/6/2012 9:21:14 PM

A new favorite: "if u can dominant me u can have me lol"


12/30/2010 11:41:32 AM

Favorite profile passage of the day: "How about a Dominate that can spell?"


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JoanFrost
 
 Age: 30
 San Antonio, Texas