I think (and have been told) that I am a very thoughtful, deliberate person. I have a few hobbies and passions, some I’m quite good at and some I’m just starting out. I’m studying two intensive majors in college, but may drop out due to success in other areas, and an overall dissatisfaction with academia as a whole.

I had tried to plug away the desires I have that made me create this profile plenty of times, but they just keep coming back. I’ve had my inhibitions, my reservations, but the belief I’m now resting on is that I need to actually give it a chance and get to know the right person here. 

I’m a solid believer in long distance relationships, and feel that a true relationship between people should be able to transcend convenience. I’ve got a lot of patience for this sort of thing, and a lot of energy to make it happen.

While I’m not 100% against findom, most of them are fake dominants, or fake people. I‘m looking for something more intimate, but don’t mind if money takes a role as I actually relish the surrender that comes from giving it up. Most of my kink just revolves around the psychology and hierarchy between the two people. One learns, the other teaches, one listens, the other commands, one does, the other demands. One is always right, the other bites his tongue, one always says yes, the other says whatever she likes.

Takes me awhile to get comfortable, and I know I type sort of rigidly. Would just hope to not reveal an awkward load of information with my profile. Much prefer to just talk, if that can be excused. Important to have a sense of humor about this whole thing.