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Its about knowing who you are and what it is you want out of your position. Im not a switch and have no tolerance for topping from the bottom.
To get things rolling, it is not important to me if you are established and comfortable in your chosen role, or if you need an education (training) in behavior. Implicit direction and guidance are always provided. All you really need is an enthusiasm to follow instructions and a sense that life is an adventure when you have an experienced leader holding your collar.
I am not going to ask what you like, or how you like it, or what you want for me to do to you. Its not that I dont care. Every respectable Dom cares for his sub. Its that your role is not to in me. I remove your responsibility of making decisions. Once we establish limits, which is a requirement for your participation, I think and you act. I teach and you learn. I speak ... and you respond.
Bondage may seem pretty standard and mundane in our community, but when you right down to it, there are so many flavors. Scarves, straps, cuffs, rope, wrap, chain... and those are the bindings. Once you are secure then there are host of options to do before your eventual release...
We all had kinky relationships coming up. Little experimentations. Most of us are here because those special encounters lead us to want more than three hours on a Saturday night behind closed doors. Part of the emotional reaction was in that we felt we were being dirty. When you go from kink to lifestyle, its that desire to feel the emotional reaction with someone that pair us up. Without creativity, redundancy leads to the familiar and even fetishes can lose their joy. Thats where the experience of a more mature Dom comes in handy. The range of options put together in unique combinations and exploration into unanticipated and surprising directions denies anticipation.
For any who miss that attention to detail, or have yet to find a man who will deliver on denial and reward and control and Mastery... lets talk. I miss having someone to take to those places with me. A Dom without a sub is just a man searching.
LIMITS
Bodily waste is out. No urine or scat. That also includes diapers, water sports, and human toilets.
Blood is out. That includes needles and knife play.
Children and animals ... not going to happen.
Physical abuse? Impact play is fine. If you enjoy getting beaten up, move along.
Narcotics? Wont use them. Not even 420 friendly. I want your mind to be present at all times.
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