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These descriptions are always difficult to summarize - how do you provide enough ination to provide an interested party with enough ination while making sure that you are not feeding the desires and fantasies of those who are surfing with one hand...

So here goes....

I have spent most of my adult life presenting the world the person that I thought that I should be, not the one that I actually am. I thought that I could manage the act, smile and nod, all the while my insides are screaming at me for not embracing who I really am, what I love to do, how I want to be treated, the kinks that I want to try, and most of all, how I want to live my life.

I am a submissive male, who although identifying as bisexual, or heavily bi-curious has had no sexual contact with other men. Thats no to say I havent thought of it, or dreamt about the circumstance on how it might happen - the opportunity has not been seized by me... I have known that I was a submissive long before I discovered the world of BDSM. I have dabbled occasionally in the lifestyle, but I am now in search of those Dominants who are willing to take the time to fully introduce me into their world, make the time and effort to train me, and to allow me to discover aspects of me that I have never thought possible.

Im not sure if I will bother to upload any photos here, but if we do happen to have a conversation past the general niceties, I am willing to share if I feel the time is right.

I used to consider myself a cross dresser - but that term seems so limiting now - it is deive, but somehow inadequate. Cross Dreamer? Perhaps. Gender Fluid? Maybe. Sissy? Most likely... but all of these terms dont quite describe my personality and desires. This is not to claim I am somehow more complex than others - Im not - just that those labels dont really capture my essence or are particularly useful in helping you understand what I am looking for.

So what is it that I am in search of? I would like to meet a Dominant couple - preferably where she is Dominant and he is submissive, but any couple who would like a submissive is a viable option- who are willing to start a conversation with me so that I can get to know them and their desires. I dont look for quick one time adventures - I have waited so long to undertake this journey, but I am not desperate. Ideally, they are looking for a domestic submissive to help them around their home, and generally make their lives easier and more fulfilled. My hope that my service would also require a feminized uni that I must wear - but again this is at my dominants discretion, not mine.

They would also start to train me to meet their other desires that they would like to have addressed, introduced or improved.

If any of this is of interest to you - please drop me a note. I will respond to all email messages.