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AZMistress87

I'm a pretty easy going person in everyday life. Most would say I'm a caring individual. Looking for friends with the same interests. Its not easy to talk to most people about the lifestyle, though I'm not shy about it at all. People tend to judge though. I've been out of the lifestyle for a couple years now and am looking to get back in if I can find the right submissive.
I'm in a committed relationship and my girlfriend lives with me. She works a lot and we keep slightly different hours most days. I had a contracted submissive when her and I got together and she has no issues with me finding another at some point.
I am into all kinds of bondage including rope and it would be nice to get some practice in if I could find a willing subby. I am mostly interested in servitude. Housework and the like. I have chronic pain and massages would also be part of the agreement. Also, I enjoy paddling, flogging, spanking, nipple torture, corset training, tattoos (I am an artist so I'm covered in them), gags and sensory play. I have tried out pet play and I would like to explore it a little more. Puppies are what I prefer but I'm flexible.? ? I tend to be more old school than most. I am stern and serious when I need to be, but I can also be a very gentle and loving Mistress. (I LOVE to cuddle, and if you've been a good girl you can expect that from me) I expect order, devotion, trust and communication. I like most things done a certain way so there will be some "on the job training" and I would expect a submissive to take my wants and needs seriously. No making excuses or whining will be tolerated. I believe that both the Dom and Sub should have their needs met in this sort of relationship, therefore I strive to know my submissive's wants and needs so that I can make sure they are being taken care of properly.?
Sex will not be needed, which is where I usually lose most people. Now days that seems to be all people want out of this lifestyle, but I'm not interested in that side of it at all. I wish I could find more people like me in that aspect.? ? If you are interested or would just like to chat, leave me a msg and I'll get back to you as soon as I'm able. Hopefully I have better luck here than I have on multiple other sites. Even a Mistress can get lonely, and I spend most of my time alone at home so I get lonely/bored quite often.
PS: I am not interested in receiving dick pics or meeting for a hook up and I am 100% LESBIAN, so if you're a man, please be respectful and dont ask. The answer will always be NO.
11/21/2017 10:52:36 AM
Just got a call from a friend who wants to kidnap me for the day. She feels bad that her dad is going to be alone and without Thanksgiving dinner, so we're gonna spend the day cooking him a Thanksgiving meal :) should be a fun day. :)
11/18/2017 10:38:01 AM
Called my drs again and still no luck. Just had to leave more msg. It's windy as hell out today so I can get anything done outside the house. Guess it's a veg out kinda day. I wish I had someone to talk to that I clicked with. Everyone seems to be busy working and I'm over here laying in bed still...waiting for the day to pass...
11/15/2017 8:03:17 PM
So I've been throwing around this idea of starting my own "hardware" business...i have some experience making paddles, floggers, different restraints, spanking benches, etc. And here's some other things I'd like to try like puppy hoods and different furniture. idk what it would take to get something like this going and I was wondering if there was anyone out there with any information for me. I was thinking about starting online, maybe. I realize I will have to get some different merchandise made and start there, just waiting for the funds to clear up for supplies. Anyway, any positive feedback would be much appreciated. Thank you! Have fun and Play safe!
11/14/2017 8:56:38 PM
Aaahhhhhh....nothing beats a hot bath when you're cramping and feel like shit..I think I may sleep here in this bath tub tonight. Lol Hope everyone is having a good evening, morning, afternoon..whatever it is where you're at. :)
11/3/2017 11:05:56 PM
It was brought to my attention that my profile says F Dom seeking submissive Male..I have looked everywhere and I'm not seeing anything that says that so I have no idea how to fix it. But rest assured, I am solely looking for females as submissives. I am also seeking friends so I don't mind making male friends, but friends is the way it will stay. I've gotten a lot of msgs from guys, I guess now I know why! Lol! I've met a couple really nice people here tho so I'm not complaining. :) Hope everyone is having a wonderful night! Everyone be safe out there!!
10/5/2017 1:16:28 AM
I've met a few really nice people here so far. No one local to my area yet, but it could happen I guess. I'll be dealing with more Dr. Appointments coming soon and I finally got a referral to see a neurologist. Wish me luck!
creambetty7
 
 Age: 23
 Berkshire, United Kingdom