My accumulated "must" list for an appropriate Match based on my past experiences (i.e., lessons learned) :
***Must be straight, local, single, monogamous, searching for LTR, non-smoker, and D&D free. ***
(Note: Please no hunters, racists, bigots or religious fanatics. No Trumpsters.)
No players or liars.
My Ideal Match:
Strong in body, mind, and spirit. An Alpha Male, not easily intimated by a strong, independent, free-spirited woman. Fun-loving and outdoorsy and shares similar interests as me. Be a water person and pet lover. A patient Teacher, One who is willing to continue teaching me the BDSM lifestyle. One who is also looking for LTR to share vanilla interests within the BDSM lifestyle. Preferably between 40yo - 54yo. A bonus if he would like an ABF relationship and help me induce lactation.
A little bit about me:
I'm searching for my soulmate, the one that I will grow old with, the one that will be there through the good and the bad, the one that I will have lots of fun and adventures with. I'm searching for someone to explore all the things that life has to offer and to share our lives with each other.
I'm a casual, down-to-earth person. Per the Myers Briggs Test, I'm an INFJ. I'm an animal lover and environmentalist who lives pretty much a "green" and DIY lifestyle. My belief system is that of New Ager/ Spiritualism/ Metaphysics/ Panentheism. I attend spiritual services and activities as much as my time will allow.
I LOVE to learn, have fun, have adventures, and travel. In my free time, I take classes in dancing, leather crafting, jewelry making, painting, horseback riding, indoor skydiving, and guitar playing. I do agility with my German Shepherd. I take trips on my motorcycle. I'm also big into water activities: kayaking, paddle boarding, whitewater rafting, swimming, etc. With the cooler weather, I'll be doing more hiking and biking. The big thing missing from all of this is a "partner-in-crime". I would LOVE to find someone to dance with, to go horseback riding with, to go motorcycling with, etc.
In a relationship, I am affectionate, romantic, and playful. I like cuddling on the couch watching movies, snuggling in front of a campfire, taking showers together, giving and receiving massages (I go to mush when you play with my hair), and PDA.
kayaking, swimming, skating, dancing (hip-hop and Latin), biking, riding my motorcycle, travelling, theme parks, training my dog, horseback riding, indoor skydiving, learning to fly ...
favorite genres: SciFi, Fantasy, Action/Adventure
favorite foods: seafood, pasta, and fruit (don't eat pork or red meat; a picky eater)
favorite music: hip/hop, pop rock, country rock, folk, New Age, Celtic, Native American, Peter Hollens, Lindsey Sterling, Pentatonix, Faun, Blackmore's Night, Shakira, Little Big Town
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
78% Primal (Prey)
57% Rope bunny