I'm looking for friends first, relationships later, but possible with the right person.
Are you fun to be with, smart, socially adept, active, and maybe artistic? We'd probably get along great. I'm attracted to men closer to my own age with an easygoing temperament.
I don't put up any kink info, I've found that it gets too much attention rather than finding out if there is a personality match first. If 2 people like spanking it doesn't necessarily mean they can have a decent conversation or can stand being around each other.