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A VERY selective,experienced, discreetand imaginative Dominant, widowed, is looking for the perfect long term submissive. She is intelligent, independent, and she knows her worth to herself and to a Dominant who can value her and appreciate her gift of submission. She should be about 40 or older, and she may be single, or a married Lady who needs something more in her life. Being a BBW is a plus. She expects a Dom who will respect and consider HER needs and wants, from mild to wild, and take them into consideration. Her experience level is anywhere from experienced, all the way down to a beginner on her first journey into her own head. She should be in the Madison area, or at least close enough to it to make RL meetings a practical matter. Perfection takes on many s, some of which may not be apparent to the eyes of others. Because of that fact... even tho I have not experienced it before, I am quite willing to consider prospective submissives with physical disabilities. Submission can be offered within her limitations. If this sounds like something that would interest you, drop me a note and we can discuss the possibilities and any problems in your case. I have NO interest whatever in TS, CD or male submissives of any sort... and I seem to be getting a LOT of mail from folks of that persuasion lately. Sorry... but guys just ain't My bag. If it sounds like YOU may be the perfect sub that I seek, why not drop me a noteso thatwe can talk about it?

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2/20/2016 11:34:43 PM
As on the old system, the mentally unstable abound, it appears.

Looking over postings I frequently add interesting ones to the "favorites" list in order to return to them easily and quickly, should it be desirable.

One "lady" added to the list just wrote to demand that she be removed from the list, and made threats as to what she would do if she wasn't removed immediately!

Madam, your wish has been granted. Your response, on a craziness scale of 1 to 10, was about a 12.

Clearly... I have NO interest in any further contact whatever with you.


12/28/2007 4:38:12 PM
I'm finding that some of the folks on this system either don't understand how the system features should be used, or they're so parnoid that they're a few fries short of a Happy Meal.

A couple of weeks ago I dropped a submissive Lady a short note, asking ONLY how far away she was (the distance measurment utility here doesn't work on everyone). I received no reply to my note.

A couple of days ago I saw her profile again... and once again asked how far away she was.

The note bounced back with the message that I had been BLOCKED!

I can understand if she's not interested, tho I can't see what she would base it on; according to the system utilities, she never viewed my profile...   but "answering" a question by immediately going to the BLOCK USER button is, tho somewhat insulting, also sending a VERY valuable message, and that is that this person is clearly too mentally and emotionally unstable to consider having ANY contact whatever with, let alone considering for anything more significant. 

Tho I now consider this "lady" a somewhat mentally unstable and possibly potentially dangerous nut, I haven't responded by blocking HER...  and I won't, unless she responds in a way that makes her a nuisance.   

I suppose it takes all kinds...   I used to get upset, but now I'm only amused.

9/8/2006 3:35:04 PM
Some of the responses I've received lately tell me something...   mainly, that a LOT of people out there DON'T READ PROFILES, or they read them SELECTIVELY, seeing only what they want to see and ignoring the rest. The results have indeed been amusing at times, and sadly laughable at others.

I've tried to make it clear that I tend to be VERY SELECTIVE. While applying that to a Dominant Male may seem to be foreign, such Doms DO INDEED exist.

Ladies: Simply being in possession of breasts and a vagina DOES NOT automatically qualify you for consideration. Nor does a simple desire for sexual activity that is outside of the mainstream.

Men: STRAIGHT MEANS STRAIGHT. It does NOT mean "Maybe Bi Curious"...   and the argument that "an anus feels the same as a pussy to a dick, and it doesn't matter if it's owner has a cock or pussy" won't cut it, nor will it change stated sexual preferences. One writer actually had the chutzpa to pose that position to me!  

All: I suppose it's inevitable that this would come up on a system like this, but D/s is NOT a PROFESSION. I consider the offering of submission in return for room, board, money, etc. to be a form of prostitution. A TRUE SUBMISSIVE IS NOT A PROSTITUTE...  she offers her submission because she WISHES TO DO SO, and NOT because she has to survive. While I know that the world is hard, it is not my intention to remedy that malady, even on a one to one basis. Nor do I wish to be a survival / support fall-back position for a Lady who is looking for a way out of a deteriorating marriage.

My requirements are simultaneoously selective, but braod; within that selectivity there is a great deal of flexibility and room for growth and exploration.

I am currently speaking to a Lady (and I don't bestow that title lightly) who is under consideration...   but some of the messages I've received so far, while unacceptable within my stated criteria, have been been interesting.

Thanks. I'll get off of my soap box now.

Be well, All.


6/26/2006 4:11:25 PM
I've been on this system a few months now, and it's been quite interesting. But I have one main complaint with it.

This is not meant to be a criticism...   well, maybe it IS in a way...  it's more a matter of simple courtesy, and manners IMHO.

Several Ladies have written me, or I have contacted them. Many respond with one note, but then suddenly dissapear with no explanation; they just vanish into the Great Cosmic Bit Bucket.

I can full well understand tenataive beginners who are here to just explore the possibilities of the Lifestyle, and deciding it's not for them. And God KNOWS I can understand that Ladies here are going to get bombarded with messages!

Just the same tho... Is it asking too much that you simply drop a one or two line note to say "Sorry, I'm not interested" or "I've changed my mind" or "You aren't the person I'm looking for"?


Thanks.


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 Age: 36
 LONACONING, Maryland