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Hello I'm Thomas Chagnon,
Throughout the years, it's become abundantly clear that regular relationships don't work for me. I've been in a femdom relationship before and I've never been able to reach the same satisfaction I had being submissive to my partner. As such, I'm now committed to finding the type of relationship that I want to be in, where She is in charge.
I'm looking for a Mistress/slave (or domme/sub) dynamic. When we are together, you're in charge of me and my decisions, which I'm happy to forgo to you. When you're feeling intimate we cuddle, when you want me to suffer you make it happen. At all times I'm on call to perform a task for you.
This is just a depiction of a possible D/s relationship that I look for, and hopefully can find. To be clear, I am looking for a woman to be my Mistress and girlfriend; a fully committed relationship. The regular aspects of a relationship still there, but with the dynamic described above. With me under your control. I have many fetishes, including bondage, pegging, facesitting (FAVORITE), whips, blindfolds, some humiliation, service oriented submission, chores, and being in a structured environment maintained by you. I'm open to a lot more as well.
I have plenty of limits as well, and if any of these are requirements for you, then it really won't work: polyamory, cuckold, long term chastity, swinging (as if it weren't clear, I'm monogamous and seeking an exclusively monogamous relationship), feminization, ballbusting, needles, blood. I'm also not looking for a pro-domme for paid sessions, and I'm not looking for someone who's already in a relationship.
I'm not looking for a particular type, but I do have a few things: I'm looking for someone independent and confident in themselves and views this dynamic as a way to strengthen a relationship. Not really looking for a particular race or body type.
As far as non-kink goes, I really enjoy hiking, being out doors, and working with my hands, going to museums, art galleries- pretty standard interests, but if you enjoy something then I probably will too.
Well- if you're at all interested, please tell me a bit about yourself. I won't answer emails that are just one word or one sentence. I'd like to hear about you :) If this is still up, then I'm still looking.
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Do you think of yourself as a superior female? Do you think a relationship would work better if the male would just listen and let you make all the decisions? Do you feel that your needs and wants should not only come first but what should be the most important thing?
I am a tall educated white male that is 24 years old, stands 6'2 tall, has blue eyes, brown hair, and weighs 175 pounds. I love to travel, down to earth, honest, and sincere. I am looking for a real relationship that is built on a level of honest communication and trust. This relationship would have all the true dynamics of a female led relationship. I have had experience in this type of relationship before.
I do know that every female led relationship is different and all depends on what exactly the female wants. If someone was to ask me what in my heart was a female led relationship this would be my answer. Females are more organized, articulate, expressive, and always seem to make better decisions then the male. She is superior to the male in every way. The female never has an opinion because she always knows what the best decision is where as the male might have an opinion, she in the end will make the final choice. She not only comes first but is what the relationship is based around. She has a long list of wants and needs that need to be constantly fulfilled and in the relationship she is going to become completely selfish. She needs to be taken care of.
She needs a lot of free time to enjoy herself and it is the males role to make sure she gets that time. How can the male help her? He needs to start doing things that allow her this time. He should be doing all the laundry, housework, running all the errands, financing her lifestyle, etc. The female has the freedom to come and go as she pleases where as the male needs to ask permission to be allowed any free time. She needs the male to make constant sacrifices to show her respect and he is committed. She is bossy and demanding and feels this should be looked at as a positive.
I am self sufficient and already know how to get things done, so I am not looking for a babysitter, but I am looking for someone who wants to make all the decisions. Again, this is for a real long term female led relationship. I will respond with a clear picture of myself. |
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| Age: 33 |
| Atlanta,
Georgia |
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