Im wasting a bit more time on CS lately so it is time to clean up the profile. Lets get the triggers out of the way now time to exit

the stupid and angry is strong here lets ignore that ok? If you are angry at the world, I'll  take a pass, I don't owe you anything neither does the world

I have HSV2 ie genital herpes, I pun, I dont give a shit about grammar, punctuation or spelling as long as the meaning is relatively easy to infer. But, I do find a robust vocabulary comes in handy from time to time.  i am fully vaxed. if thats a trigger gor youvthen quit wasting your time here.

I'm not a big fan of exclusionary practices.  I'd much rather answer questions than guess or shoot from the hip



I play on occasion but have no time for a relationship right now. Im not looking. Im here for entertainment, to learn perspective, develope my knowledge and skills plus talking with like minded people. To wit perverts. 

As the profile here suggests, i am actively seeking only interesting friends and masochists but am open to the unplanned unexpected. Yes, the pictures on my profile are of my handy work. I have deleted pictures of myself in the interests of safety. I will share those privately. If this is a problem, keep moving.



I love providing aftercare as much as i love extreme play. I take care of my toys. One of my play partners describes me as FunScary. I take my responsibilities seriously. I do want to hurt but i also want them coming back and (after a period of healing) healthy.

An important question i get asked is whether or not i smoke after sex. Not usually but i do keep a bucket of water nearby just in case.


I also have Daddy inclinations if the subs personality is right. I enjoy dominating strong submissives. I find it amusing that there is an assumption among many subs. Silly girls. That having been said i do adjust to whom i am playing with. I have never found a play partner that could take all that i could give out. Im told i have a heavy hand but apparently it is applied well. While not required, aftercare can be as good as play for me.



Yes, I do have experience but I tend to avoid the community and its drama



I prefer being in your head. Haunting you. Nurturing you. I garden and have cats. Nature heals my soul. The Buddhists have a saying, you cant step in the same river twice. So it is with me.



Humans are the only animal known to display friendship and pleasure by baring their teeth.



I am Not into little play, princesses, blood (but if it happens it happens) scat, twerking, sports or micro managing.



I am open to friendship with all people regardless of their kink if we can find common ground or interests. Want to get my attention in a positive way? Stimulate my intellect or curiosity. If you love things like astronomy, philosophy or cryptocurrencies lets talk! Likewise with woodworking, gardening and paleontology. You will see in my list of interests almost everything i have listed myself as a beginner. That is because i attempt to keep myself in beginner mind as much as possible. If you know what beginner mind is then we already have things to talk about.



I Might train. Might protect. Might mentor. If you are not sure of the difference, ask. I also love to learn. You can find out more about me here sfetlife.comusers2336047 Fair winds