Collarspace

Classy, sane, attractive, and educated sub seeks Dom of integrity, humor, and intelligence for LTR. I love the connection and closeness that BDSM brings. I am extremely submissive sexually, but not so much in every day life. I am monogamous.Outside of the sexual arena I enjoy reading, movies, friends, riding horses, eating organic food, walking on the beautiful trails here in Sonoma County, and playing music. If you are married, please pass me by. I dont go there at all. And if you smoke, please dont contact me. I am interested in men somewhat close to my age. If you are in your 20s or 30s I am most likely not going to respond to your message. I enjoy bondage, submission, king, laughter, music, animals, and intense sex with a commanding, powerful man. I am not a masochist, despite the results of the test. Pain is not a turn on for me, though intensity is. I hope to create an erotic, uninhibited, loving, and intimate connection with one special man who I can respect. I am not looking for casual, occasional play partners.As much as I appreciate admiration and attention, I am trying to limit my time on this site to finding someone local. I dont have the time or energy to chat with people that I will never have the opportunity to meet. I am doing my best to stay focused so that I can leave here and have a real life.

I dont submit on-line. I want an in-the-flesh kinky relationship. I dont submit to strangers. We have to meet and discuss whether we are a good match. It seems odd that I have to spell these things out, but it will be better to avoid misunderstandings that have been occurring.

I am drug and disease free. An occasional glass of wine is enough for me.

I am looking for a gentleman who values my opinion, goals, and passions as much as my submission. I am looking for a man who does not have to prove his strength by being louder than I am, or bullying me. I have tremendous admiration and respect for a Master whose strength comes from intelligence and experience. I will submit very happily to the man who is interested in inspiring all those around him. I received some advice recently to weed out the players, so please use the word thoughtful in your reply so I know you actually took the time to read my profile. Thank you!

I would love to hear from you if you think we might be a good match.

Results of BDSM test

100 Bondage Receiver100 Submissive83 Masochist66 Degradation Receiver63 Primal (Prey)59 Exhibitionist50 Voyeur45 Slave38 Primal (Predator)29 Switch26 Vanilla20 Non-monogamist0 All-Rounder0 Bondage Giver0 Degradation Giver0 Dominant0 MasterMistress0 Sadist

Ravishment is about opening a woman beyond her own fear into the love that is her true nature, deeper than she could take herself. David Deida