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*****Edited

Im getting more mail than I can keep up with so Im going to write something up. This ought to help with that.

As for age range, I am typically looking for someone older than me but younger than 50. Its more important than NOT important.


Id like to start out by being up front so we do not waste each others time. I am picky. A very guarded individual. I have my reasons. Im not easy and I also know that Im totally content by myself. Happiness through a dom is not necessary for survival.

No, Im not as experienced as I would like to be in this lifestyle. I must say that I am NOT looking to be a 247 slave. Im more submissive, yes, but my life wouldnt allow it and I dont really think its my thing.

First and foremost, I know a chickenhawk when I encounter one (typically an older person looking to come on here to abuse the inexperienced and naive). You know who you are and exactly what youre doing. Miss me with that crap. I see straight through it. This site IS NOT an excuse for you to be an abusive asshole to others.

I do have friends of different roles in this lifestyle and I do know what is acceptable behavior and what is not. I educate myself before doing most things. Ill start off by saying that one of my main goals is getting into an exclusive relationship one day. No poly.

If you demand something of me right off the bat, or any time where it isnt warranted, you wont get a response. I am also less likely to respond if you dont have a profile picture. I think it is a bit important to see who we communicate with, dont you?

Im looking for a dynamic where I can be comfortable with my dom. Truly. Comfortable. 1, before anything mutual respect and equality. I want to be able to tell him anything. Im looking for someone more experienced than myself... and willing to be strictly monogamous IF it works out with us. I want a relationship out of it someday.

Id love someone who isnt afraid of showing emotion or afraid to be sensitive. Someone who will help build me up instead of put me down, as I will not tolerate otherwise (unless its consensual of course).

The reason that I like this lifestyle more than being vanilla ALL the time is the psychological aspect of it. It runs deeper than what is normal. It just matches my depth of personality and I want that same depth in someone else. I want an understanding, genuine, and honest person. Someone whos not afraid to be open and direct with me. I respect brute honesty than to be lied to.

THIS IS IMPORTANT and I feel it is important to you right away as well. Do NOT expect to call or meet me right away. It is GOING to be a long process. Ive become a very guarded individual over the years so trust is extremely important for me. Sadly, you will have to have the patience of a saint.

SO sorry that this is long. I love to write, and I am very thorough and detailed.

I am one QUIRKY-ASS person. I have an absolutely dry, dark, and disgusting sense of humor. I also know that there is a time and a place. I can be just as classy when I need to be. AKA I will not embarrass you in public or with friendsfamily. I also have a very good heart.

Physical qualities I have birthmarks on my elbows, back, and chest. My body is as quirky as my true personality. I have super long red hair. I am shorter with an extra 10 pounds or so.

I also have a child and he will always come before myself, or anyone else, ALWAYS. I am a very devoted mother.

Now that youve gotten through all that, and I will know if you bothered to read any of this through your message (if you decide that), I like to get the bad out of the way before getting to the good. If I give someone my all, I only think its fair that trust is earned. Im actually very shy, polite, and friendly. Just guarded.

I LOVE the outdoors and find peace in nature. I love camping and talking about the deepest subjects while keeping an open mind about life. If there are any questions, dont hesitate to ask!


***************************Anyway, here is my testing result to answer further questions you may have Results from bdsmtest.org
99 Rope bunny
99 Submissive
89 Masochist
79 Brat
74 Primal (Prey)
72 Slave
72 Experimentalist
56 Degradee
37 Pet
34 Exhibitionist
24 Vanilla
15 GirlBoy
15 Voyeur
9 Non-monogamist
7 Ageplayer
2 Sadist
1 Primal (Hunter)
0 Brat tamer
0 DaddyMommy
0 Degrader
0 Dominant
0 MasterMistress
0 Owner
0 Rigger
0 Switch

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M2FBabeMaker
 
 Age: 28
 Sydney, Australia