Submissive who may be ready to try again. This profile will be off and on as it is edited. If it disappears, it’s because clarification is in the works or information needed to be added.

More honesty is needed. More respect is needed. If you are mature (your age may or may not be a good indicator), have mastered your own life (dealt with your baggage in a healthy and effective way), and have time and room for another to explore with, start a conversation. 

That out of the way, I’d be thrilled to come across one who is interested in a long-term relationship and willing to work toward mutual happiness. Let's combine the vanilla and bdsm into what works for us.

What’s desirable? Men who are around my age or possibly older, height weight proportionate, pretty fit and active, and patient. Because I want a long-term relationship, chemistry and attraction must be present on some level. We all have certain things we're looking for, certain preferences. That is my preference. You may or may not be what I believe I need and vice versa. If I’m not or you’re not, no harm and no foul as far as I’m concerned. We are adults and surely, we can act as such. I will attempt to respond to all messages if with nothing other than a thank you, but I don't believe I'm interested. Don't get bent out of shape if I don't respond because I do have other things to attend to. 

I am also open to friendships to have conversations about this lifestyle. It is interesting to learn how people got to where they are and find out their take on BDSM, relationships, etc.

About me: loyal, committed, adventurous, kinky, and very sexual. I’ve had enough experience to have a good idea of what will work well for me. Please do not expect me to address you by a title from the start. If you are able to gain my trust, that will follow naturally.