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I am 34 years old and originally from the South. I am 6 foot tall, blue eyes, and brown (with some grey) hair. Overall I am a laid back individual that carries himself with confidence. I enjoy travelling, hiking, working out, movies, driving, cars and other activities that I would be willing to share later. I am a private person and due to work I do not have a picture posted currently. I will have no problem sending one once we have started to communicate and there is potential. I try to stay as drama free as possible and expect the same. I can't exactly say how long I have been in the lifestyle for because quite simply I never put a label on what I did or how my past relationships worked. Saying that I have always been dominate in my relationships since I was about 17 or so. I would make most of the decisions when we were together and that would lead into me controlling most things including sex and other things listed further down. For me initially, besides having a quiet confidence and controlling manner, I started out being more dominate and controlling when I realized that if I created an environment where all the b.s. of normal life didn't matter or was forgot about, it would free them to be themselves and truly focus on the what brought them pleasure, which was mainly their service to me, sexually or otherwise. This environment allowed them to flourish and explore their wants, needs, and desires without any judgement and somebody to help guide them through it all. I took great pride in training them and was something that I loved doing. I am looking for a female sub/slave/slut. I do not care if you are white, black, asian, hispanic, or any other ethnicity, it is about chemistry between me and you that matters. Whether you are straight or bi, I am open to either. I see my sub/slut/slave being bi, or at least enjoying other females as a plus but not a requirement. This is because if we can't get along just the two of us then adding a third or more won't solve the issue. I do want somebody that takes cares of themselves physically and mentally because you would be a representation of me as your Dom and should always want to look good for me. I enjoy somebody that wants to submit to me and not from fear of punishment. From that point I have to do my part to be a Dom you are can't help but submit to. I would like my sub to be younger than me but by how much I'm not overly strict. I am looking for a relationship that most resembles TPE. I say that because I am naturally controlling and believe in a lifestyle instead of specific set times or "scenes". I like to keep things spontaneous and always have you at a certain level of excitement of never knowing what is coming or what you will have to do. The whole "scene" thing to me is like telling your partner "Hey on Thursday night between 8:37 and 9:45 we are going to fuck and do things in this specific order". That just seems incredibly boring and dull to me and the reason most “vanilla” relationships don’t work besides a lack of clear communication. I like things to be more spontaneous. I probably do not punish as severely as some for that reason. I would rather just be able to grab you, bend you over my knee, or put you in a position to spank your breast, pussy, or ass till I've had my fill. The spontaneity of sex is important to me. I enjoy keeping my subs on their toes and knowing they could be used at any time or place and in any manner I saw fit. There were times that they were told put on something specific and position themselves in a certain way and stay that way till I came home. This built up suspense and let their minds run wild as they envisioned what was going to happen to them. In my relationships I controlled what we did, sexually or otherwise, what they wore either at home or in public, how they stood, sat, kneeled, picked things up, the positions they slept in, and anything else you can think of. The clothes that they were allowed to wear were clothes that they knew I would like and approve of. I would have them be fashionable (as I said before you would be a representation of me) and I would make sure they wore things that showed off their best features, whether it was legs, ass, breast, back, arms whatever their strong points were. There would also be rituals or rules for what they had to do at certain times of the day or how they had to greet me when I got home or left for work. These can be discussed in our communications. My philosophy on how I see the dynamics of these relationships. I believe that trust and communication are paramount to this type of lifestyle. You will be making yourself very vulnerable to me physically and more importantly mentally. This means I have an obligation not to destroy that trust or become abusive. Also for you to be able to be my sub/slut/slave then I have to handle everything else so that you can fully devote yourself to that role when we are together or apart. I see the relationship sort of as a sand box. You set up walls with your hard limits but within that sandbox I have free reign to do whatever I please. With time and growing trust the walls may go away and the sand spills out but still stays relatively in the same area and doesn't go flowing to the other side of the yard. I do have many things that I am comfortable with and other that I have no problem exploring but the one that thing that I am not very comfortable with(other than extreme stuff like bestiality, cutting, children and stuff like that) is sharing you with another male. If that is a requirement for you I may not the right Dom for you. Sharing you with another female is allowed if discussed and follow a couple rules. If you read this far and would like to discuss what we offer each other or see if we have chemistry send me a message and we can go from there. CS