As a sub i identify in many roles. it is my place to facilitate the needs of my Mistress and fit into the role that SHE wants, and not the one i want.
here is my bad or naughty boy persona that i identify with:
The Bad Boy is the submale whose need for strong feminine authority is most evident in his need to feel that authority, to feel it upon his body as well as his mind.
For this boy, a stinging slap is a powerful statement.
The Bad Boy is also referred to as a "whipping boy", useful to a truelife Domme in those periods of stress when she needs an outlet for pent-up frustrations. This can be therapeutic for both on ocassion
Indeed, the Bad Boy's inner compass that leads to this adult behavior, may have been created by the cycles of punishment as a child - where punishment delivered, and followed by a warm hug, and then maybe milk and cookies of reassurance. But now as an adult, being allowed to suckle at Mistress's breast is the best reward i could ever hope to accomplice.
There are submales who profess to like to be spanked, however the true Bad Boy has a "need" to be disciplined.
Most truelife Dommes see the word "spank" to be rather childish, and prefer the verb "whip" to have much more impact and lasting effect. No pitty-patty taps. Punishment must hurt to have any value.
A knowledgeable Domme will discipline the submale in such a manner to carry him well beyond any sense of pleasure, and into a zone where excitement begins to stall out in the face of mounting fear - approaching from the other direction.
Yet, he is drawn again and again to yearn for being taken into that zone, for he is the classic bad boy.
A truelife Domme will learn it is absolutely amazing what a boy will come to beg for.
While maim is not the objective, a reddened bottom is often the key to "progress" as many a Mother can testify.
Should it happen that marks are still visible the day after, rest assured that the submale will wear them with pride like badges upon his chest and stripes upon his sleeve.
It is important to note here, that a truelife Domme will never discipline a boy just because she thinks he likes it, or has even requested it. Indeed, if that were to occur, then it would be entirely fair to ask just "who is serving whom?"
The Bad Boy has sexual needs, but they are secondary to his need for feeling the discipline first. In time, the discipline fuels his sexual needs.
What a boy likes or needs is a considered a weakness, and is used by a truelife Domme to accelerate obedience and devotion.
Herein lies the key to training the Bad Boy, or any submale: Discipline always precedes sexual activity of any type. Thus, the two merge into a single strong response where exercise of one begets the desire for the other.
A Pavlovian reflex pattern develops.
The intertwined needs of bad boy and sex slave represent the classic combination. However, all boys are used as sex slaves to some degree under the control of a strong Woman. A bad boy craves that Female Led Relationship.