Collarspace.com

There are two of us and what we seek is oh so simple yet oh so complicated. Male in late 30's female in early 40's.

We are seeking a girl preferably teens or 20's who is interested in being owned and used as a slave.

We are not looking for love. We are not looking for romance. We are looking for the type of girl who feels most natural being degraded and humiliated as a natural part of life. A girl who will be used when and how we wish both sexually and domestically.

She will mostly be a stay at home girl. She will be provided for.

We are very real, however patience with the internet runs thin and we prefer meeting in real time settings as quickly as possible.
9/18/2016 11:17:58 AM
Is this lifestyle even real?

I often wonder if anyone anywhere in this lifestyle is truly real. I mean sure, the bedroom kink is clearly real. Obviously we know there are men and women out their getting spankings and giving spankings. We know there are many using whips and paddles and ropes.... but this, is all just sexual kink, its not lifestyle. 

I have been to MaST meetings. I have seen the contests masters and slaves go through - and its all kink. 

Where is all this training? Where is all the micromanagement? I have been here on this site since 05. I have been in this lifestyle for over 20 years. I have NEVER met ANYONE in the lifestyle that was ACTUALLY training their slave to be furniture, a farm animal, a bimbo, a latex doll, nor any other kind of slave other than a bedroom kink slave mixed with a submissive housewife. 

This doesn't begin and end with master/slave. Its exactly the same with Dominants and submissives. Its all bedroom and kink. No sub or slave stays in a situation when they hate, detest, or are otherwise forced to do things they don't like. 

Every single slave or sub I have ever met, has limits far beyond what they list and the first time they are told to do something they don't like or refuse to do, even if it was never on a limit list, suddenly the relationship gets very vanilla as arguing starts. And for the record, this is not about "my relationships" its about every single male and female dom and every single male and female slave/sub I have ever encountered - in or out of a relationship.

WHERE ARE PEOPLE LIVING THE LIFESTYLE AS OPPOSED TO BEDROOM KINKSTERS? IS THIS LIFESTYLE ALL JUST FOR SHOW?
9/11/2016 5:27:04 AM
tons of girls talks about wanting degradation, none will deliver in realtime.
subbabygurl
 
 Age: 26
 Sioux Falls, South Dakota