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Im narcissistic as fuck. I expect a lot out of you, and you should understand that you should expect little in return. Blah blah blah ha ha ha ha right?

I dont take this particularly seriously. Mostly here to chat and browse. and have a good time, and Ive been around long enough to know not to have expectations.

I think the best relationship Ive ever had was the one that I kept sending away but she kept coming back for more. There really was something about her pathetic desperation that, I guess looking back, really turns me on. It was really amazing how at first I was mistreating her because she annoyed me and I was hoping shed take a hint that I wasnt interested in her and go away but she just KEPT COMING BACK FOR MORE and at some point it kinda just turned into a fascinating game of what kind of misery I could put her through and shed still tolerate it.

So yeah I dunno, I guess if youre interested in chatting with someone who isnt going to take you very seriously and you can demean yourself enough or beg for my attention or whatever, you know how to inbox me. Obviously, of course, if youre the kind of girl who expects the guy to message you made the mistake of having expectations and we wouldnt get along anyways I guess. Ha haaaa
7/15/2017 1:20:05 PM
Most people see a dope fiend or a junkie.

I see a 10$ blowjob and a punching bag.
7/13/2017 4:50:52 PM
Lmao tons of profiles with women annoyed by short, uncreative messages. Or copypasta. So many women complaining about not being able to find anything...

But have any of you thought to actually stopping being so stupidly passive and actually put some effort into pursuing the things you want? Did you ever stop to think that once you find that thing... maybe put some fucking effort into it?

I can't tell you how many otherwise compatible women I've stopped chatting with on this site because they expect effort that they don't want to reciprocate. If I'm ever interested in that shit I'll save myself the trouble and just start dating dudes man, like... LMAO!

My last sub was like this, and got tossed out for being lazy as fuck. By the end, all she would do is sit on her fattened ass and play video games unless I cracked a whip at her and forced her to do something with her life -- ain't nobody got time for that! It's one thing if you need discipline and structure in your life, it's another thing if you literally won't do anything unless someone stands over you and physically forces you to. You're not a sub, you're a damn NEET with a very slight kink.

Yeah, I get it. There are a ton of men on this site, and you feel you can easily replace any man you find, and you think the men should come to you while you sit on your ass (but you call yourself a sub lmao) but it turns out that quantity != quality. There are tons of lottery tickets too, and the overwhelming majority of them are losers.

Anyways, you're never gonna get anything out of this unless you're willing to put something into this, and whatever you put into this is all you're gonna get, especially from me -- I guess you could call me a mutualist or a mirror in that regard.

If you're always complaining about how things never seem to work out for you, consider this -- maybe the problem isn't other people, it's you. There are plenty of people who seem to manage to find partners and live happy lives, and I have a lot of trouble believing that it's because the good people are all taken or any of that stupid crap.

I'm honestly considering charging people for roleplay -- at least this way, when I'm telling someone else a story for them to jerk off to and give me the occasional "mmmmm" and "I (do whatever you just told me to do in as few of words as possible), sir." I'm at least getting SOMETHING out of that. I have a minor in writing so I'm actually worth it TBQH.

Think about it and do some self-criticism and self-reflection. It'll make you a better person.


7/12/2017 1:38:21 AM
"That" look on her face that makes you pop in an instant.

You know the one I'm talking about.

"Powerless contempt"

Just the perfect mixture of anger and sadness. Hatred and defeat. Outrage and misery.

The way her eyes narrow in anger and her nostrils flare.

Maybe she tries to glare a hole in you. Maybe she can't bear to make eye contact.

So perfect <3
7/4/2017 1:11:44 PM
I have to admit I find myself less and less interested in the pain aspects of all of this. I don't really get all that much out of actually physically hurting anyone. Like I do see the usefulness of pain as a teaching tool if you own a slave, but that's still a means to a greater end to me, not the end in and of itself. It's always seemed kind of weird to me to use pain as a motivator for a masochist anyways: won't they just act out more because they love being punished??

Although I suppose the reverse of that is that you could use pain as a reward. "Good girl, now you've earned a spanking." I guess I can see that.

I actually have been seeing a lot of control-based fantasies and those sound kind of hot. But I have to admit, I would almost certainly just use that power to see how much the girl will let me make her demean herself for my amusement more than anything. That and see how many nasty places she'll rub her nose, lips, and tongue into. Ha ha. A lot of subs actually get annoyed with me when I'm not being 100% hyper-sexual all the time. I think a lot of them just want to cum and need to learn some self-control :)
7/1/2017 3:42:52 PM
I could use a nice laugh at your expense ;)
6/5/2017 5:09:02 PM
I think the idea of a "broken domme" is pretty funny, I guess. But lmao literally every last one of you seem like you're all "broken" by other dommes, so...

1) Yeah, sure. You're totally real lmao. And even if I accept that you are...

2) If you're still going around calling yourself a "lesbian"how broken are you, really? Not very broken at all I think.
5/27/2017 12:55:55 PM
I was out today and I saw several small-breasted girls wearing those "I have no tits" crop tops.

Not even like, a kinky setting or anything (it was pretty boozy though tbh). Just a bunch of ditzy blonde normies out in presumably normal society.

Love it <3
5/20/2017 1:20:15 PM
>When you RP with a girl and the next day her profile is updated with a bunch of shit you talked about and you didn't even have to make her do it xD xD
12/18/2016 5:28:59 PM
I have to admit, I relish the fact that we're at a point in society that fat girls feel the need explicitly state themselves as such in their profiles like they have leprosy or an STD or something. You even can spot this type of behavior on mainstream dating site profiles. There's something really hot about a girl having that kind of self-loathing and... just understanding... that she's willing to warn the rest of society about her deficiencies at the expense of her dignity.
draya
 
 Age: 23
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