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NOTE: I have yet to find anyone under the age of 25 on this site that is actually serious about anything (apparently, they mostly just want someone to "talk dirty to them" online), not to mention, that has any level of maturity whatsoever. So, if you're under 25, don't message me. I'm not interested in wasting my time. My personal motto: "Find a way, or make a way." I am very creative both in and out of the bedroom. In "real life" I am a writer, editor, artist, and teacher, and soon-to-be publisher. I have three books coming out in the last half of this year. I'm intelligent, educated, and well-read. I am originally from the NYC area and still consider Manhattan to be my "home town." I'm currently living in Northern Colorado, but plan to move within the next 15 months (although I'm still in the process of deciding where to move--possibly just to Denver or Colorado Springs, but equally likely out of state). So, I'm willing to relocate for the right woman (unless she lives in BFE, Arkansas, or someplace like that!). And if you know what an Oxford Comma is, and actually make use of it . . . bonus points for you! I'm not a "dom," I'm a Master. (If you want to know the difference, you may ask, of course.) I had my first 24/7, live-in slave while I was in college, so I'm very experienced. I've tried making vanilla relationships work, and have had a few with really wonderful woman, and the sex was great, but ultimately, you cannot pretend to be something you're not, and cannot be fulfilled trying to be less than you are, so I've given up on vanilla relationships for good. (The bottom line is, you can't "make" a relationship of any kind work--and if you have to "make it work," it's probably not meant to be.) I'm very involved in the arts (especially the literary arts, obviously), but I also love the visual arts (I started out in life as an artist, and am still a book designer and photo editor), and music. I love to hear live music, especially outdoors (which is one thing Colorado IS good for). I'm also a film buff and love old movies, and foreign movies. (I even used to write a monthly film review column for a small magazine.) I enjoying going to art museums (or any kind of museum, really), and art walks, and "wasting time" in used bookstores looking for treasure. I'm not really sure what kind of things to write about here. I don't want to go "on and on" forever! As when you meet anyone, even in "real life," if there's something you want to know, just ask! If it's none of your business, or I just don't want to talk about it, I'll say so (New Yorker, remember?), but I'm pretty open, really, so when in doubt, just ask. I suppose I should talk a bit about what I'm "looking for," but I'm already aware of having written beyond the attention span of most contemporary Americans weaned on TV and 30-second commercials. Obviously, I want a woman who will be obedient and submissive. Think 1950s household with kinky hijinks. A lot of kink. I'm not interested in letting the whole world know I'm "kinky" although I do think anywhere can be "the bedroom" at the right time, and I don't mind occasionally blowing the minds of vanilla people. (It's fun, and it doesn't cost anything!) Some quick things some may want to know: I don't do drugs; I don't smoke weed (but may be open to you doing so, occasionally); I don't smoke cigarettes (and won't allow a slave to); I rarely drink (not that it's wrong, it's just that having my senses dulled has no appeal to me). So if you do any of those things in excess, and don't think you could stop, we will probably not be a match. I find that people who need to drink or do drugs to "have fun" to be lacking in imagination. And apologies in advance for the crappy selfie. I absolutely loathe having my picture taken. It was taken last summer, though, so it's fairly recent. A little more of the "normal" things about me . . .  Favorite TV shows: Game of Thrones (Best. TV show. Ever.); Mad Men; Entourage; Californication; Preacher; Seinfeld; The Walking Dead. Favorite Movies: Lost in Translation; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Lawrence of Arabia; Doctor Zhivago (and lots more). Favorite Bands:  Talking Heads; U2; The Beatles; The Rolling Stones; Led Zeppelin; The Who (and lots more!). I'll write more as I think of more. This will be a work-in-progress. (I'm a writer, and writers revise!) 9/17/2016.

5/8/2017 10:52:43 PM RANT #2 So, I just read a "submissive's" profile (see Rant #1), and she wrote in her profile that she is seeking a "dom" (of course she would want a "dom" rather than a real Master!) who is between the ages of 35 and 50, and that it was a "hard limit." And I know what you're thinking: So what? You're under 50, what's the problem? Well, here's my problem (although it's not really a problem for me!). She's 45. She thinks she should be able to get guys who are ten years younger than her--but she thinks guys who are six years older than her are "too old." Logically, by her standards, isn't she "too old" for guys six years younger than herself? (That's a rhetorical question--the answer is yes!) So right off the bat, we know she's not a logical, rational person. Now, keep in mind, from the only photo in her profile, she has a big, fat ass, and isn't showing her face--so probably not that attractive, if her big, fat ass is her best feature, am I right? At this point, some of you are probably still thinking: So what? That's what she wants, that's her "right," blahblahblah, why are you still talking? The point is this: If she is that shallow at age forty-five, she is not only not that submissive, she's an idiot. Because what kind of moron says "Oh, you know what? You're absolutely perfect for me in every way, but unfortunately you're six years old than I am, and my "hard limit" is five"? I'll tell you what kind of moron says that. An actual moron! So to her and all the other delusional middle-aged women out there (and really, anyone who is too immature to realize that age really is just a number): Have fun living alone in your old age with those seventeen cats!

4/15/2017 12:26:47 AM RANT #1 So, I just read a profile by a self-described "submissive" who says she's looking for someone "who would put the experience of their [sic] submissive first."  Putting aside her poor knowledge of grammar, she is, she wrote, looking for a "genuine" dom or domme--you know, someone who reads her entire boring manifesto and list of demands to please herself. Not to mention, of course, the inevitable laundry list of her "limits." Because if you don't read her whole blahblahblah about what she wants, you're not a "real" dom, don't you know? (I read it, because I'm a writer and editor, and I'll compulsively read the entire list of ingredients on the cereal box while I'm eating breakfast--just because it's there.) I am real, but not because I read her idiotic nonsense about what it is to be submissive. She doesn't have a clue what it means. And of course, she made the usual passive-aggressive type of comment (in advance!) that every passive-aggressive chick makes by calling any man who doesn't agree with her a "dime-store dom." (Is that a thing? Who knew?) Because again, if you don't agree with her--the "submissive"--then you're not a "real" dominant. So--you're wrong, bitch. You're not a submissive, and you're not looking for someone who's truly dominant. You're just another self-absorbed, entitled, selfish bitch, a common slut who thinks men are here to fulfill your 50 Shades of Crap banal, schoolgirl fantasies so you can "role play" being "submissive." This is not an amusement park. This is who some of us are. Want to "play pretend"? Well, grow the fuck up--you're 29 years old, for chrissakes. If you want to go to an amusement park, Disneyland is in California. Fucking tourists.