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"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary." Oscar Wilde
I am a Dom/Master. I am looking for a sub/Slave girl who wants and needs complete control for a lasting Long Term Relationship.
A true dominant man does not need to be loud or brash or mean to prove he is dominant or in control. I am Single, Protective, responsible, caring, and experienced.
I have a high IQ and am very intelligent. I am also normal, sane and down to earth.
So, if you are interested, tell me about yourself in as much detail as you can if you haven't done so on your profile and feel free to ask any questions you wish.
This is an important decision for both of us and we both should want it to be a right fit. And tell me how you see your role with a strong, in control and Strict dominant man. Will share more if you are interested. DD FREE, NON-SMOKER.
It's not a question of difference in our age, it's a question of wither your mature enough to become involved with me.
TIH, TPE, HOH, LTR, STRICT, DADDY, MASTER, DOM,
Inquire within if you are serious and interested~
*** Picture will be provided once communication is established and it seems that both the Master and potential Submissive/slave have a connection*** Due to the nature of this site, I do not wish to post a picture for all to see.
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If you are truly going to own and dominate a woman, you must understand her. Everyone, of course, is unique, but I’ve seen some of the same things over and over between the submissive women I have known: They are motivated by a deep desire to please. When you ask a “vanilla” woman what to do, she will sometimes reply “whatever you want”, which is simply annoying. However, you must understand that phrase for what it is from a submissive. She wants more than anything to please you. Whatever plans or ideas she had on her schedule, if she can make you happy she will be more fulfilled than doing whatever she wanted to do for herself. You must understand that phrase for what it is. Now, this can easily become abuse. Every submissive woman I have ever personally known has been through a number of abusive relationships. She gives and men take and take and it becomes abusive. Weak men with self-esteem issues are often drawn to these women, which compounds the problem. It takes enormous strength and experience to take from a woman like this (which is what she needs) without abusing her. Your job is to soak up all her love and affection and attention, help her find ways to please you, while supporting and strengthening her as a person. This takes wisdom, experience, and, I believe, some age. I cannot imagine a 20 to 30 year old guy being a successful “Dom” in any real sense of the word. When you find her, she will likely have things in her past she is not proud of, and you may not be either. That doesn’t matter. You must accept her exactly as she is, with all of her flaws, imperfections and mistakes and you must never hold them against her. If you are worthy of the task, she will be transformed by her relationship with you… practically an alchemist transformation… lead into gold was only a metaphor for transformation you know? It was always about transforming the common and the broken into the sublime. If you can’t accept her, you can’t have her. She needs to understand and to come to trust that you are not like the people who have hurt her in her past. She has developed complex coping and self-protective mechanisms. If you would possess her, you must strip them away and this takes time, love and persistence. If you do not do that, then your relationship will be a sham because you don’t have her, you have the face she has prepared to protect herself from the outside world. She will naturally subjugate her desires to yours. In my opinion, you have a sacred responsibility to build her up and to strengthen her as a person. Again, you better have the wisdom and experience to do this… if not, find your way together, but be honest with her that you cannot give her what she needs. A continuation of the above point: not every submissive is a masochist… some are, but not all. New and wanna-be Dom's need to be told this because if she sees you want to beat her even if she doesn’t want it, she won’t say no. In my opinion, if you find a woman you really care about, you need to do a lot of work understanding what makes her tick, and that does take work. My girl, for instance, literally could not answer the question “what do you want?” when we started talking. Could not answer it. You do not realize how difficult that question can be for a natural submissive, but you need to teach her how to think about it and answer it sometimes. Above all… above all other things… be honest with her. In a relationship like this, trust is the one thing that cannot be repaired. If you damage it, you’re done. You also need to be aware that most of these women (in my experience) have an uncanny sixth sense. They are actually or very nearly psychic and will read all of your communications on every level. Don’t lie to them. It’s not worth it and once they catch you in a single lie, you now go into the same pile of “men who hurt her” and you will never truly be trusted again. There is no depression or sorrow that can compare to what happens when you hurt or disappoint one of these women. Make sure you understand the responsibility you are assuming when you begin a relationship. On the other hand, they are capable of loving on a level that you probably cannot even begin to comprehend. Again let me say this clearly: you have tremendous, profound and sacred responsibility for and to this woman. Don’t fuck around with this lightly. This post is not about sex. Done properly, neither is your relationship with her. |
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Happy Holidays to all, I Hope everyone finds, what they seek,
this coming new year. |
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OK. this is another "come on guys" What is it with Bi or gay submissive guys e-mailing me. It defiantly says I am not into that in my profile. So come on guys save us both the time and trouble, I am not interested. You will be deleted. So "come on guys". AGAIN, I am not interested In men. |
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Come on folks, up date your profiles. saw one today and she says she is 18 yrs old, and has been on here for 9 years, she joined in 2008. Wrote her a note: Hmmmm! your 18 yrs old and been on here for 9 years, How did you work out the time travel differential? Did you unravel Osaki"s quantum paradox? would like to know your quantum field equalization equations. Would like to talk with you. Do you think she will answer? Maybe 27? Maybe a scammer? |
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Its a hundred and seven in the shade, actually its 98 but the humidity makes it feel like 107, welcome south, the slave that's visiting me, well all she can do is look at the kitchen window, If it gets much hotter out there I guess I'll have to let her in. LOL!
WHAT! she's fine, she's not hot, she's naked with a collar and on a chain, tethered to a stake in the back yard, What! LOL! Guess I could put some water in her dish, WHAT! LOL!!!
(Borrowed this one, Cute Joke)
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Well Happy 4th everyone. take a moment to thank those who made this Holiday mean something. They are already shooting off the fireworks since the 1st here where I live, even the rain that came through tonight didn't stop them. I can see why ALL the stores sell it here. buy it, set it off "BOOM", go buy more. Have a safe 4th everyone. |
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just got another unsolicited message from another fake. I know if I answer it they will request to go off site first then ask for money. seen to many of those. I can just feel it. Enjoy your jolly's guys, and I say guys although at one time there was a sorority doing this as an initiation rite, for their pledges. they even hit up the dommes and ladies. yeah, I have friends, they tell me. |
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This journal entry came from the journal of WICKEDPRAYER. (with permission) read it with care ladies, wannabes and fakers.
"To all of the "slaves" out there asking for money in the first message... Stop that! You are making every single real sub/slave on this site look bad........ All 4 of us....... 😒 We really don't want to lose ALL 3 of the genuine Masters on this site, so please, cut it out."
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what I would like to say will probably fall on deaf ears, but why ladies do you not at least respond to your mail? even if it is a "no thank you" I have been on here as of today one year and two months and have found and talked with some very interesting ladies, and some that are not so. But irregardless you put your profile on here to get responses, give a courtesy of a response. |
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A Veteran is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check payable to the United States of America for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact. Have a great Memorial Day. Remember the sacrifice's for your freedom.
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