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Well. After being on this platform for about 4 months, I felt it was time to refine my profi
Female Submissive, 48,  Huntsville, Alabama

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Age: 50, Height: 5ft 9in (175 cm), Weight: 195 lbs.
Location: Spokane, Washington
Last on 1/16/18 at 7:52 PM











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 Submissive Female



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 174 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

After being on this platform for about 4 months, I felt it was time to refine my profile.

I understand that most people don't like to read an essay, so I am keeping it short.

First: I will communicate with everybody who can be polite and civilized. It's hard enough to find friends, and even harder to find like minded friends that share our "affliction".

But really and truly, I am looking for the one and only.
If you are the one, then you are:

*considerably taller than I, but you are at least 6' 3"
*you are roughly in my age range
*if you want "the looks", you have "the looks"
*you want to really get to know me
*a true Dom, somebody who likes to be in charge and is willing to step up
*you enjoy taking care of your woman and being there for her (for the record: I am not referring to finances here)
*you can be - and are willing to be - romantic
*you like DD, D/s and are interested in being exclusive

I don't want somebody calling me names or thinks I'll submit and fall on my knees just because you contacted me. Please respect that I am not into shaming or humiliation or degradation.
Submission is a gift and has to be earned. And trust comes before obedience.

This used to be my profile text:
Hi, I am a newby. I only live in Alabama parts of the year. Otherwise I live in Europe. I would love to get to know like minded people in the Huntsville area, to hang out with and have fun. I am interested in a relationship but also just like to make some friends that are in the lifestyle. It would also be cool if we just chat. I am looking forward to hear from you soon.

"Sending me a message saying just "hi", "how are you?" or any other inane greeting will not inspire me to reply.
Would it inspire you?"
Those are the wise words of a lady, who happens to be a member here.
She has given me permission to use her words.

Journal Entries:
4/4/2017 9:08:04 PM
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." (Thomas A. Edison) I was going to whine and complain about the experiences that I have made on this site, but the above quote keeps me going and has helped me succeed not just once, but many times in my life. So I am taking my experiences during the last four months as a learning experience. The right person for me is out there. I just have to keep looking.

3/28/2017 2:04:42 AM
Guys are asking me why I want somebody much taller than I am. That is easy to answer. I want to feel feminine and small. I want to be able to wear heels. I want to have to look up. I want to have the chance to be manhandled, tossed, positioned. ( And yes I am working on my weight) . I need a bigger, stronger, taller partner for that. Being taller than him, or almost as tall as he is, or maybe even have the same height, will never allow me to get into the right mindset. So I am being selfish or self protective. But that is what I want and need.

3/27/2017 7:01:40 AM
Thank you Wayne. I am looking forward to talking to you again.

3/27/2017 7:00:33 AM
Thank you. Thank you to all the doms on this site who helped me with their support and comfort and kind words. Thank you for showing me, that in our world, in our community, you do take care of your own. That there are true doms here who can show support and give guidance because of who they are and because of them knowing who I am.

3/25/2017 6:14:08 PM
Lately I have been talking with three doms on this space, with each of them the conversations went deeper. The conversations were thoughtful and went beyond regular exchanges. Intimate questions have been asked and were answered. Two out of these three doms asked me if I wanted to be their submissive. I answered to one of them with yes. I wanted to be his submissive. And then nothing. No more conversations, no more texts. Nothing. That is not how I imagined a realationship like that would work. Long distance or not. If you are a dom and I am not the one who calls you that - you do, by putting it in your profile: straight male Dom - then for heavens sake, act like one. If you lost interest, release her. Tell her you made a mistake. Tell her you hope she'll find what she is looking for. Otherwise you just blend in with the rest of the male population, who won't pick up the torch, who won't be in charge, who won't take charge, But then don't put "dom" in your profile. Regular straight male would be more appropriate then.

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