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I am not new to neither this lifestyle nor to this website. I have grown in the last four years, and being part of this community is a major contributor for that growth.
Kink stuff
I am a switch. I still enjoy being a submissive, but I have started to really explore my dominant side. It would be great to be mentored and work onimprove my skills for spankingimpact play, and bondage (tape, rope, and general restraint). What I am looking for in the long run is a relationship, but I understand that will not be immediate. I am looking for a play partner, or two, which may lead to something more serious. I am not against just friends, a mentor, or a play partner, but I would like to have that be a regular or semi-regular thing.
What I am seeking in a partner

As a submissive I am looking for a woman who will use me for both domestic servitude and as her play thing, which she can pass me along to her female friends. Although I do possess some skills, I am a constant learner, and understand that there are things for me to learn and to be trained.

As a dominant, I am looking for a woman who will be a play partner and my bottomsubmissive while I learn the ropes ) I enjoy a good pun.

With either partner(s), I would enjoy doing things outside of kink as well.

Emotionally, I am NOT a carpet for you to walk over. I will advocate for myself, and expect my future submissives to be advocates as well. I expect that we have a briefing before any play time and a debriefingaftercare as well. The same goes for me as a dominant. I am not going to treat you like garbage. I understand there needs to be trust between us before playing, and that will increase during our time together.

Submission is given, not taken.

I know this stuff is at the bottom, but this is give you more of an idea of some of my likes and dislikes.
Likes footshoe worship, bondage, peggingass play,cbt, impact play, blindfolded, used as furniture.
Hard limits any bodily fluids besides spit (not mucus, spit), cutting, branding, needles, breaking of the skin on purpose, branding (basically any long-term marks), force bi, forced cum eatting.

Non-kink
I am a young professional who has grown up in the area. I enjoy movies, TV shows, outdoor activities, videogames, and listening to music. I am pretty open to a variety of things, but like everyone else, I have my likes and dislikes.
NikkietheKittie
 
 Age: 45
 Long Island, New York