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sweetquiet1

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What am I like? Extremely easy-going, quiet and soft-spoken but still warm and friendly, sensitive, completely sane, very polite and respectful to all. Love to laugh and I can easily see a lighter side in most any everyday situation. I'm a professional with my life together, someone who's drawn toward the more stable situation in many life decisions. I'm completely unattached, so I'm not here to cheat on someone. Clean, healthy and fit, no drugs, no smoking, rarely drink and never overdo it on the few occasions when I do have something. I'm discovering D/s late, but my detail-oriented, gentle, giving nature, combined with my enthusiasm and positive attitude might appeal to a certain type of dominant lady. I'm sure there are many women who are less concerned about a potential sub's experience as his willingness to follow her directions and his eagerness to please her. If there is such a thing as a natural sub then I might be one. I take care of others at my job and feel most complete when helping a friend or family member. We Virgos can be the intensely loyal, humble servant sign of the Zodiac happy to work quietly in the background. So it makes sense for me to find a woman who's bossy and controlling (in that wonderful Domme way!) Someone with a deep-seated urge for the exchange of power, and a desire to have such a humble servant like myself at her beck and call. I am not the loser doormat without self-esteem, and there are many who could confirm that I have no problem sticking up for myself in everyday life. Independent, standing tall and self-confident, I feel my giving up control to a strong-willed, good woman is no cause for shame or insecurity on my part, just my growing to understand and accept that this is part of who I am. I'm probably not looking for someone just starting into only because Im not interested in another immature, flighty lady, who wants to try on being a domme to see if she likes it. No, I'm holding out for the dominant lady who's past her experimenting stage and realizes a "normal" relationship doesn't fit her. That lady who wants a friendly, well-mannered, companion in public who happily becomes her selfless, devoted pleaser behind closed doors. A compliant guy thinking of her comfort and pleasure who's quite happy to make himself the means to satisfy her need for control. Someone who would prefer building something real and sustainable with her sub is what I'm looking for but I'm open to the excitement of something more casual at first if that's preferable to a dominant lady. The best situation for me would be someone looking for that long term female-led relationship and is willing to work together toward building something that we can strengthen over time that brings us both lots of happiness. She might already know from her past experience exactly how she likes to bring along an enthusiastic near-beginner like myself. Or she might prefer to just let her intuition guide her and play it by ear as she nurtures my submissive inclinations and leads me along toward my becoming her version of an exemplary sub. A quick-learning guy whose devotion and attentive service she senses will be worth the patience she shows at first. She knows her patience will pay off later when she enjoys countless hours of service and pampering focused on her pleasure. The self-described, angry, sadistic b**** who says she's straight from my worst nightmare wanting to expand my pain limits and try creative ways to abuse me is not the one for me. Even though I know I'm meant to submit to a controlling lady, Im far from a masochist that gets off by being mistreated (physically, emotionally or verbally) At the same time, a lady's interest in some discipline and punishment seem to go hand in hand with the rest of her dominant nature, so I'm expecting that. Looking to match kinks here seems so shallow compared to finding chemistry. For now the milder activities of female control without S/m could be a starting point as more could be discussed in private over time. I hope you'll say hello if you think there might be possibilities.

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8/17/2023 6:16:56 AM

Since I'm always calm, so laid-back and accommodating I would be almost ridiculously easy for a strong-willed woman to manage. Unfortunately that's not ideal for a lady who'd prefer a contest of wills and wanting the challenge of a sub who pushes limits just to test her control. 

Oh well...the search continues.


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truedina30
 
 Age: 24
  Massachusetts