Here looking for the best of both worlds.

I am seeking a submissive, slave or a switch, who is intelligent, kinky, creative, happy and fun. I will always play safe and respect limits. My likes (to list a few) Ball Gags, Thigh Highs and all Lingerie, Leash and Collars, Bondage, Light spanking, always up for an adventure.

My vanilla life?
Stable yes I own my own home, car and am fanatically stable. I was raised to be a gentleman by my mother and father. I have been told just a good guy by my friends at work. I have tried to live to this point being just that.

I do go to the gym and a morning walk as it seems age is catching me.

My golds aspirations here are to find my best friend and plan the rest of our lives together. A house on the water and a cabin in the mountains so we can watch the sun rise and set.

I do honorvalue trust, loyalty. I am not looking to play games at this point of life. With me you will never be lie to or anything but the truth. Looking for that person that will have my back as I will have hers. My partner in crime. The one to go on the adventures with.

Tell me about yourself, your desires. You will always have a voice it is about all of us both in the BDSM world and the vanilla, but at the end of the day we need to and will be happy.

This is a real add from a man who is looking to meet now no drama or hassels!